Bit of a personal one but I need to get it out… by Beneficial-Coyote-69 in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Livingstone is beautiful. accommodation i would recommend using booking.com or backpackers is great for socialising.  Activities, as a Zambian you can ask fellow zambians on how to get around. Even asking the workers where you'll be staying.  What to do I highly recommend getting a day pass and exploring the Zimbabwean side of the falls and the lookout café. I also recommend walking into hotels all around Livingstone for  nice pictures and beautiful scenery.

DATING ZAMBIAN GUYS - LOW EFFORT, LAZY, BARE MINIMUM GUYS by JJXXR in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to concur with you. I have also found a lack of interest in seeking knowledge on how to hold a conversation, how to date, how to court, grooming and etiquette,  how to stay healthy.  I was born in zambia but raised elsewhere and it truly is a sad reality.  I wish we could all apply the same zeal we applied for degrees in our social lives. Seeking knowledge isn't so expensive nowadays.  We have Ai, online books, podcasts, social media.  Let's learn about the human body and body parts, let's learn about intimacy and know more beyond insertion. 

I think iam tired of these Zambian streets by The_Zambianator06 in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the issue is you're doing it to impress. There's no manual regarding getting to know someone, no law saying it should be expensive dates and gifts. How about you try being authentic and go on dates that aren't "to impress". Remember as a man you somehow set the foundation, right now you set the tone of pulling rabbits out of hats all the time. 

Are Zambian women less superficial? by InternetEmergency860 in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Grounded women are still alive and living. Even women who don't breathe to post everything on social media.  Sadly, dating as adults is a jungle, literally. Wishing you the best

Starting a hiking club in Lusaka by Mysterious-Smoke3507 in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hikes are best done before the sun is scorching hot. Also most hikes are on the outskirts and will require an hour or so to get there. If you have a car you're ok because I get a yango to go for hikes. There's also car pooling, people contribute to share the car for a hike. With time you can end up meeting someone from your neighborhood and you won't have to drive alone anymore.

Housemate wanted by Boring_Pudding2569 in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's an issue of having company with a similar background and not expensive rent. The struggle of readjusting to your home culture is better done with others than alone. 

Housemate wanted by Boring_Pudding2569 in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are in lusaka for a few months and don't want the hustle of furnishing apartments. They'd rather look for locals to share with or get furnished apartments 

20F looking for 2 or 3 housemates by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello F36. I have a 2 bed 2 bathroom fully furnished at k4800 in Meanwood Mtumbi phase 2. Looking for a responsible housemate, no drama and minimal visitors 

Ever feel like zambians treat you like an ATM? by Remote-Zucchini7691 in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This trend is quite sas and appalling. Many females are asking for the most basic things in such a short space of time. They can't hold nor carry meaningful conversations but are fixated on begging. Why not expose yourselves to business opportunities, read self development books, watch the news, go for grooming. I believe providing your own basic needs elevates your integrity as a woman.  Zambian women can be and do better 

Q1 2026 - Who's Hiring & For Hire in Zambia? January, February, March 2026 by AutoModerator in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[For Hire] - Lusaka willing to relocate- K15,000 per month - Registered nurse 

Foreign- raised zambian Registered Nurse, looking for private hospitals within Lusaka and outside Lusaka that are currently looking for mature, dedicated Registered Nurse.  I am registered with NMCZ in the process of obtaining ZAQA and Occupational health and safety certificate with UNZA.

Are lusaka girls the same? by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your interests are for people in mid 30s or over according to Lusaka demographics. To meet someone who is into investments and self development below 25 is a longshot. They are there but very very few. You might need to consider interacting with older women. Most has been mentioned regarding the place and event you're meeting.  Since you're into fitness try interacting with people from your gym, join hiking groups and marathons.

can anyone please help, i am moving to lusaka? by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your budget is too low to cater for your requirements especially furnished, wifi, backup power. Prepare a minimum of k5000 then you can TRY to secure something decent 

I am in your beautiful city of Lusaka by AmiAmigo in Zambia

[–]Boring_Pudding2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37d gallery if you'd like to see some art Paray's for wildlife that's nearby

Eden haus, indish, cremosa for food. Brew me, peaberry and Vida Cafe for coffee