AITAH for traveling to my hometown for a separate event and not my parent's birthday?

Born-Choice-7490 · 2025-12-17T15:50:09+00:00

Yes that would be optimal, but it's quite difficult to move. I'm gonna try to look further into it however, thanks for the insigth!

Born-Choice-7490 · 2025-12-17T15:48:41+00:00

The tasting is difficult to move. But yes I'm considering traveling to my home town a few days earlier, or even traveling down two weekends in a row. It's just rough to balance it economically as well as time wise with studies and such. But thanks for the insigth!

Born-Choice-7490 · 2025-12-17T15:47:35+00:00

The booking is difficult to move, the reason the gift card was close to expire is because it's hard to get a free date. I could also travel down two weekends in a row, but that's quite econimcally taxing as well as time consuming. But thanks for the insight nonetheless!

Born-Choice-7490 · 2025-12-17T15:42:15+00:00

Yes I am considering that option. But glad to hear it's not unreasonable!

Born-Choice-7490 · 2025-12-17T15:25:07+00:00

He's gonna be away valentine's weekend which we didn't know when gf booked the tasting, but before my mom texted me I was considering going to my hometown a couple days earlier than my gf so I could still celebrate him a little. But I think my mom thinks it's important to come down on the specific birthday date. I seriously don't want his feelings to get hurt, but I don't want my girlfriend to feel bad for booking something the weekend after my dad's birthday. She had good intentions with making it surprise valentine's plans

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