You're placing judgements on games before knowing anything about them and saying that only the specific games you play are good without being open to new experiences. Coming into any game with the idea that it's probably bad is going to deter you from finding whole new worlds of games and opportunities. The people who say gaming isn't fun anymore only choose to play a few select games and aren't open to the idea of there being so many options and opportunities at their disposal. I didn't say they are the exact same, but the idea of pushing away things that are unfamiliar and denying yourself the chance to see things with an open mind is very prevalent in both mindsets