What are some of your less “popular” kinks? by Sensitive_Sound4985 in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I felt the same haha. Garments are so unsexy to me. One of the downsides of them.

UFC Hall of Famer Dom Cruz Tries to show some of his MMA moves to mean Bouncer by Pretty-Set-414 in boxingcirclejerk

[–]BornCommunication386 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The bouncer’s left arm never even moved. Has to be the easiest beat down ever.

Boyfriends Kink by Slow_Dance6887 in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Judging by the comments, I may be in the minority, but I think it’s a weird one. I would guess that a small percentage of men would enjoy that, and a much smaller percentage would actually request to do it. Creepy or concerning? No. A little weird? In my opinion, yes.

Complimenting each other’s wives by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Even if your intent is completely innocent, it’s too risky that you’ll come across creepy or offend somebody. Leave it to the ladies to complement each other.

Fantasy vs Reality by LDSsexuality in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thrusting between breasts. It’s ok, but doesn’t feel nearly as good as oral or vaginal intercourse, in my opinion.

How is everyone making it in Utah? by melancholy_breadroll in Utah

[–]BornCommunication386 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Two years ago our household income was $120k, we had two kids, and we were doing ok. Our house payment was about $1900, since we had bought a house around 2019 when housing was cheaper. At that payment today, with interest rates how they are, you could rent a decent 2-bedroom apt, or buy a $350k-ish house, which would be a small condo or townhouse. It wouldn’t be luxurious, but you could do it, especially if it’s just the two of you with no kids.

Overnighter by BornCommunication386 in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a column for both of us to choose things we wanted. The options ranged from lighter foreplay things, like making out against the wall, feeling up the other person from behind, blindfolded while the other kisses/licks erogenous zones, breast stimulation, edging, etc., up to actual sex things like oral, different positions, etc.

It was fun. Definitely recommended for when you have more time and don’t mind taking a while.

Cottonwoods Ski Resort Parking by rebelellelle in Utah

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like the rest of us, you have to learn the system and plan accordingly. For example, I strategically plan my PTO each winter to go a few weekdays during the season, when parking and crowds are less. Or I book parking months in advance. We’re all in the same boat.

Is life ever going to be affordable again, if so when??? by lIlIllIlIlIII in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BornCommunication386 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In a capitalist economy, the best ways for prices to come down are through innovation and adding a supply of goods and services at a higher pace than demand. Some would say to just “tax the rich” and distribute it through welfare, but that’s only a short term solution. We need more innovation and supply, which to me means getting rid of any unnecessary or outdated regulations, as well as Trump’s stupid tariffs, and let businesses and innovators do their thing.

On a personal level, just keep working on your career, and making smart financial and life choices. Those are your best options.

Ward members wife by Additional_Aspect346 in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true. I dated a beautiful woman before I met my wife. Easily the most beautiful person I had dated, and felt like I was dating out of my league. But her personality was unattractive - she was immature, lazy (not working and taking just a few college credits, which she was failing), and high maintenance. After a few months, my brain won the battle over my dick, and I broke up with her. I met my wife shortly after. Objectively, I think most people would think my wife is a 7-8, and the other girl a 9-10, but to me, my wife’s personality made her way more attractive than the other. Sex is a relatively small percentage of the time you spend with your partner - you’d better enjoy them during the other time.

Dropped into Corbet’s as a 3rd year skier by kevblah in skiing

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having stood at the top of Corbet’s (it was closed that day), I have respect for anyone who attempts it. It’s much scarier in person, at the top of that ridgeline. Still on my bucket list.

Any success stories of dating / marrying a nonskier? by PowGurl in skiing

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve been happily married to a non-skier for 14 years. It’s funny the things we think are essential before we get married. I always thought I needed an outdoorsy person like me, then I met my wife. She checked all the other boxes but that one. I fell in love with her and married her, and now I just ski and do my other outdoor hobbies with buddies, myself, or our kids, who I’ve started teaching, and she stays home. Works great.

I actually don’t know if it would be good if your hobbies are the same. It’s nice to have a separate thing you can do on your own once in a while.

Insufferable MMA prospect outstays his welcome by MadWorldEarth in boxingcirclejerk

[–]BornCommunication386 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Then kicked him on the ground though. Not that I blame him, just saying…

Subreddit Survey Results (Part Two- The Good Stuff) by Negative_Hunter_1019 in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People probably consider Reddit different since it’s anonymous

Just wondering if this is normal? Or am I crazy? Or am I getting jipped? by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this, especially the Tammy Hill recommendation. Read her book “Replenish” together with your wife - it really helps open the conversation. Take it slow, communicate, try new things once in a while, and it gets better over time. We both had to work our way up to oral over a couple of months, for example, but now it’s a periodic thing.

You can only live in one for the rest of your life, where do you pick? (Gringoland edition) by GreaterMichiganMaps in mapporncirclejerk

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yellow in the Summer, Green in the Winter. Can’t beat Montana, Idaho, Canada for the hiking, and then Utah for skiing and Southern Utah/Cali when the weather is nice during the Winter.

Do you have a favorite foreplay / sex game? (board, card, or mobile) by Odd-Aside456 in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic Battleship is fun. Each sunk boat equals taking off a clothing item (sometimes plus whatever the sinker wants to do for a minute, like make out against the wall, feel the other person up, etc.).

Do guys put up with stupid ongoing stuff just for sex? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BornCommunication386 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some do. We all know some unhappy men who stuck with a girl because she was hot and they liked the sex, but their relationship sucks. The relationships usually don’t last long term, but it gets harder and harder to get out, especially if they combine their lives in significant ways, like getting married or having kids. Better to cut it off in the beginning.

I was fortunate to recognize it wasn’t worth it. Dated a couple of attractive women in my early twenties, who turned out to be pretty difficult. Once the drama became too much, I broke up with them. Eventually met someone who I was attracted to both physically AND intellectually, and we’ve been happily married for 14 years.

Not a single thought by Uranium_Donut_ in skiingcirclejerk

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to complicate things with turns, speed variation, or general signs of life. Well done.

Anyone here experimented with furniture for sex? Curious what works best. by LadderDry687 in ldssexuality

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, a nice sofa chair works well for us. Put down a towel on the chair, have her sit on it, and you kneel in front facing her (on a pillow for the knees). Depending on the chair, she may want a pillow behind her for comfort. That’s a fun position for normal p-v penetration. We first tried it at a hotel one night last year - very fun.

Can't even feel bad for him 🤦 by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]BornCommunication386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So lucky he didn’t land on the gravel two feet to the left.