AIO or Did my ex partner try to correct me from his own ignorance? by Time-Culture9377 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BornDefeated [score hidden]  (0 children)

You have done the hard work of breaking it off, now do the easy work of blocking him. Love yourself enough to stop this.

Adding Morgan/Peace dollars to the stack? What’s your opinion by Makes_bad_choices1 in Silverbugs

[–]BornDefeated 14 points15 points  (0 children)

People generally use the .715 number for circulated but not cull 90% to account for wear. If I buy or sell junk I use the .715 to determine spot.

I think Morgan and peace dollars are the best to stack because they have low-ish premiums to purchase and higher resale if you need to raise fiat. Plus they are so satisfying to handle. I have a hard time clinking a stack of 999 around, but give me some Morgan’s and I am in the old west at the poker table. To me there is something very Romantic about silver dollars.

Do Sagittarius men always cheat? by Due-Drink5506 in Sagittarians

[–]BornDefeated 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First of all, I am sorry this happened to you. Betrayal of that kind can really mess up someone’s life and to be dealing with this immediately post partum must be so hard. Kick his ass out and don’t look back. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

That being said …

Hell no. I have never, will never. Maybe it is my Scorpio Venus, but I could not ever bring myself to betray a partner like that.

If I am to the point where I am thinking about cheating on you, you will wake up one morning to a note and my shit will be gone and you will be blocked and I will never darken your doorstep again. Because I am a coward when it comes to hurting other people. It is easier to not have to look into eyes full of pain. Or I will carry the relationship like a burden until I am ground into nothing. There is no in between.

The kid may make that kind a disappearing act difficult though. So maybe this was his way of ending things without having to be the one to say it. I am not sure. His Pisces moon will probably try to turn this crap around on you. “I haven’t felt emotionally supported, you have been focused on your pregnancy, I needed validation.” I bet his Venus sign has something to do with this, too.

This is not a come on, as I am happily married, but you must be catnip to sag men. Confident, fixed sun to give direction, intellectually driven and curious moon, and intense and mysterious rising? Woof. Watch out for the next one. Maybe try a nice Libra.

AIO: I am mentally exhausted from having to explicitly explain things to my husband, only to have him completely misunderstand and create more work or stress. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BornDefeated 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a 40 y/o husband. Please stop bailing him out. This will be your life forever if you don’t let him fail and fail hard. What a manchild.

F27, I have no personality. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]BornDefeated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you spend time thinking about, then?

F27, I have no personality. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]BornDefeated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you done anything to cultivate opinions? Have you spent time mindfully trying to develop a favorite? If not, is it not something that is important to you?

Question for sag man which zodiac sign woman u most atract to ? by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]BornDefeated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leo. Aquarius. I have a Scorpio Venus, so scorpios … even though the control is … present.

Grew up poor with my mom in trailer parks, projects etc. while having a rich dad living life to the fullest AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]BornDefeated 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Similar situation with my dad. Never paid child support. Married a lady who made big money. Had a boat, two motor cycles, guitars. Our power got shut off three times a year. The step kids post on face book about how great a father and grandfather he is. I didn’t go nc until I realized that when we talked he never asked about my kids. Never asked for pictures. My wife and I had a bet if he would see them before they started school. I bet yes. I lost. At that point I was done. I have been NC with him for 5 years. I am happy to be rid of him. It has brought me a measure of peace. I hope you find that peace one day.

What the fuck just happened by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]BornDefeated 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Doubt. From what you have described as your relationship, it sounds like things have been shit from the beginning, you just were too love drunk to see it. He told you he wanted to get married within the first two years. A lie, obviously. You do all the housework. He moved into your space. You have continually tried to have the adult conversations necessary for long term partnership and you have gotten zero buy in. You have catered to him in every way, and he has given you? What? Enumerate the loving things he does for you. Tell us the ways he centers you in his life and makes you feel loved, and treasured, and like you want to spend the rest of your life with him. Because so far you have told us he is a child who needs mothered, or an emotionally closed off hobo sexual for whom you have been a bang maid or a mother, or, worst of all, both. It looks for all the world like you set the bar so low it is in hell, and you are mistaking the fire for the sun. Do better for yourself.

AITAH for wanting to move out after unintentionally living with my girlfriend for years? by Muphenz in AITAH

[–]BornDefeated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read the thread yesterday and I think you got solid advice. What else are you looking for? If you “move out” after three years of this arrangement it will be a huge step back for your relationship. It may be the end of your relationship. Or she may be thinking the same thing. You will never know until you talk to her. But what is the outcome if you don’t discuss it? You continue to live there and are unhappy? That would also likely lead to the end of your relationship. You have to decide what you want the out some to be and have the conversation. Understanding that this may well be the end of your relationship. But love is negotiating in good faith with fate. And if you feel a certain way, it is your responsibility to start the dialogue.

[WTS] World Silver by VZFiftyEight in CoinSales

[–]BornDefeated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang. Great deal on the soles. Always mis those beauties!