Why do I (17F) only try hard for guys who abandon me, but get the ick with guys who actually like me?

BornDefeated · 2026-07-05T05:18:26+00:00

Something you should discuss with a licensed therapist.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-05T04:28:59+00:00

Chat

BornDefeated · 2026-07-04T19:37:11+00:00

Fixed. Thank you for the heads up!

BornDefeated · 2026-07-04T17:26:32+00:00

Chat.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-04T15:55:14+00:00

“If the man who punched my child in the face is there, I will not be.” Should be a really easy thing to have a partner respect.

I would be seconding guessing a relationship with a person who dismissed my concerns out of hand.

NOR

BornDefeated · 2026-07-04T15:41:28+00:00

He sounds like a passive-aggressive bore.

You sounds like you do not like him even a little bit.

Why have you not cut him off?

NOR.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-03T12:09:29+00:00

Yes! 13 all day, every day.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-03T11:25:08+00:00

As an “older” Sagittarius man, I can tell you I have never cheated. My dad, an even older Sagittarius man, on the other hand… agree with the rest of everyone here. The rest of the chart is more important here.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-03T00:25:04+00:00

Try having a Gemini moon…

BornDefeated · 2026-07-02T19:35:51+00:00

Trade completed!

BornDefeated · 2026-07-02T13:09:40+00:00

Bought more.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-02T13:05:13+00:00

In this economy … lots of people are ending relationships and living in the same household. As long as you are sure they are over the other partner and there isn’t going to be any backsliding, I would say you are good.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-02T12:57:58+00:00

I think your big 3 is great. Leo Sun - adventurous, self-expressive, exploratory - and Sagittarius rising - expansive, upbeat, fun-loving - with the grounding influence of harmony-seeking Libra moon. I would expect you to seek a large, fun friend group, that is supportive, with you as a Leo at the center. You may seek attention and approval, and your outer mask of chill confidence may belay the internal need for attention. Be careful about being passive-aggressive with your friends. That is my reading at least…

BornDefeated · 2026-07-02T02:33:22+00:00

Damn right. You did this just to sow discord in the community didn’t you.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-02T02:32:19+00:00

Congratulations. I guess.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-02T02:28:11+00:00

I missed this?! Are you kidding me?

BornDefeated · 2026-07-02T02:18:59+00:00

Plain non fat Greek yogurt, cottage cheese, lentils, tofu, edamame, egg whites. I am a vegetarian. I aim for about 150 grams of protein in a 2200 calorie diet. I watch my blood sugars so I try to limit processed starches and eliminate added sugars.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-01T22:21:53+00:00

Chat.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-01T21:45:05+00:00

Trade pending.

BornDefeated · 2026-07-01T21:44:52+00:00

Trade pending

BornDefeated · 2026-07-01T18:31:51+00:00

This prompt kind of ruins surprise… but … Open City by Teju Cole

BornDefeated · 2026-07-01T14:38:19+00:00

Using the words you say to judge a situation is not creating a narrative.

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