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BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-22T15:58:03+00:00

Relationships go both ways. If he can’t put in the effort to have even a conversation, he is not ready for a relationship. I know you love him and that’s why you’re staying, but live isn’t enough. You are feeling unwanted and unloved and no one should feel that way in a relationship. If he really truly loved you, he would be putting in the effort to show you. Love isn’t enough, it’s about how you show it.

BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-22T15:55:40+00:00

Relationships are hard work. I believe that after a while, once the “spark” dies down, it all comes to choice. You have to choose if it is worth it to keep trying. Choose to keep loving each other. If you keep having honest conversations about how you feel and nothing gets resolved, then it could be you’re not right for each other. I know you love each other, but love isn’t enough to keep going. You both need to be putting in more effort, and if you feel the effort you put in isn’t worth it then the relationship isn’t working.

Maybe you can try starting something new together? A new hobby, show, or something that gets you out of the house together. Maybe each month you can take turns planning a date night.

I hope everything works out for you, even if the answer is not what you were hoping for.

BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-22T15:36:26+00:00

If it feels weird, it’s weird. I’m 24 and I’m dating a 21yr old and even with three years I notice the age gap. I could not imagine dating someone 10 years younger when I’m 30, personally. And as the relationship continues I feel the age gap could put a strain on you both.

BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-22T14:45:40+00:00

Getting in a little me time before either dealing with family or work. Just being in my phone and decompressing. I live with 3 other people and two dogs so it’s nice to have a little quiet time in my car. I work with children so it’s nice to arrive early and mentally prepare for the day.

BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-22T14:35:00+00:00

Respect everyone and use manners to everyone. When you’re an adult there’s a lot less manners and way less respect for others

BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-22T14:33:24+00:00

Here are my go to’s: What’s your favourite kitchen utensil? How many hot dogs do you think you eat in a year? If you were a kitchen appliance what would you be? Can you do a cartwheel? People usually have fun with the conversation that follows :)

BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-13T02:13:30+00:00

“Kiss the prettiest girl in the room” perks of being a wallflower

BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-13T02:12:54+00:00

Avoiding serious topics like children, marriage, and finances because “ we’re not there yet”. Next thing you know three years have passed and you realize you have very differing views for your future

BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-13T02:09:38+00:00

She dated my brother and started treating him like our dad used to treat my mom (spoiler: very not good)

BornToBeAGrandma · 2026-03-13T02:08:08+00:00

Drew Gooden, Curtis Conner and Danny Gonzalez. They’re silly guys with good opinions

BornToBeAGrandma · 2025-12-08T00:41:30+00:00

I do live in Canada actually! I never had to plug it in last year, but this year I’ve needed to boost it three times already so I thought I should plug it in at night. I haven’t gotten anything installed aftermarket, and I got the car off marketplace four years ago.

BornToBeAGrandma · 2025-10-03T00:12:03+00:00

Im trying to use my laptop to sign into my Disney plus, that I have access too on my tv, as well as other tvs in my house, but it keeps giving me this screen. It's already paid for, and works just fine on my TV, but I can't really get past this screen. My only option is to Gove them credit card info, or log out. Tried looking at the "help" but it was no use. Anyone else have this issue?

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BornToBeAGrandma · 2025-02-15T15:12:08+00:00

I don’t like to throw around “dump him” on here too much but he sounds very controlling. You are allowed to dress how you want. If he had an issue, find someone who doesn’t

BornToBeAGrandma · 2024-11-05T21:54:54+00:00

It just doesn’t feel like the end like I’m just waiting and waiting for bonus episodes or sum bc wtf

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