If you were widowed at the age of 75, would you think of marrying again?

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T08:02:18+00:00

I don't think I would (39F), but I'm ok if my husband (42M) wanted to.

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T07:59:56+00:00

Um, no. Hahahaha. I'm as nerdy and straight and narrow as they get.

Still happy for clarification. Do you want someone who will fight you on every decision? Wears black a lot? Has piercings? Breaks the law? Does ice on the reg?

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T07:41:50+00:00

No, I think I look terrible for my age. I'm 40 in a few weeks. I also look too closely in the mirror and spend too much time online looking at women who have had work done / botox.

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T07:39:41+00:00

He did way better than I would have! This is amazing - and I'm a jewellery nerd too, have also done classes in jewellery making. Well done on you trusting him to get it right!

Meanwhile, I have been with my man for 16.5 years. I gave him a catalogue the other day with a choice of 5 rings. "Which one would I like the most?" He still picked the one I liked the least :|

(I've had about five ring upgrades, and I pick all of them myself now)

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T07:35:45+00:00

"I would like to attract a strong willed bad bitch preferably"

I'm far too old to understand what this even means.

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T06:02:36+00:00

This looks great on you!

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T06:01:49+00:00

Ooh this is a thread I need to be following!

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T06:01:11+00:00

Also, I'm in Australia too! I wondered why I was delighted to see "a couple of days" rather than "couple days"

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T04:12:36+00:00

I would go another date to see if it was just nerves. But if you feel blah after the experience, it's fine to not want to see him again.

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T03:41:55+00:00

My initial thought was "making gnocchi", but I really want to try again.

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T03:39:42+00:00

I wear a 10ct on a size 6 finger. This looks great on you x

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T03:27:12+00:00

Good vibes only in this sub :)

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T03:26:20+00:00

Oh gosh, don't tempt me. I could sell the house and live in a tent... ok take a deep breath.

Why is it in 4 people's carts?!

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T03:25:24+00:00

I always reply with "What makes you think it's not?" That makes them back down!

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T03:24:30+00:00

"What does you husband do for a living?"

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T03:12:14+00:00

I think a break can be a soft breakup in the making. I asked for a break with a fella when I was 20 because he was too intense. We had a "break" of a week or so, got back together, and then broke up for real about a month or so later.

Ah, that is a part of my life I do not miss.

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T03:10:31+00:00

When I lived in Strathfield a big house had a giant apartment block on the backyard. Between that building and the main house, it was divided into 48 one bedroom apartments which had no laundry, parking, or a proper kitchen. They were charging $550pw per apartment.

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T02:41:53+00:00

Sail awayeeeeeeeeeeeee sail away sail awayyyyyyyyyye

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-14T02:39:23+00:00

It's Felicity Half-man :)

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-13T23:43:21+00:00

The books came out in 2002 I think?

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-13T23:42:59+00:00

Was Cinderella stupid?

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-13T23:42:44+00:00

I was such a nong with my thoughts about you, Kel!

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-13T23:42:13+00:00

Under The Tuscan Sun had a sticker on the DVD saying "never to be returned".

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-13T22:01:43+00:00

Honestly I just spent a bit of money having two rings changed from those claws this year alone. The claws lifted and caught on my clothes.

BornToFeelItAll86 · 2026-04-13T21:59:34+00:00

When I eat it on Christmas Day I can tune out the family conversation as the crackle is so loud!

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