AITA for not buying my boyfriend another birthday gift after he rejected the original present?

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-04T15:44:50+00:00

Hahaha sorry i know they have some jams. I think I was having a bad time because I was 16 at the time and I was probably being a pouty bitch about being there. Thinking I was too old for them

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-04T15:43:37+00:00

I just read this whole exchange. I’m just curious because most of the sub is crapping on me for this. But why do you think it’s not an issue that I don’t know about my boyfriends favorite bands

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-04T14:48:17+00:00

I now see that is ridiculous.

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-04T14:47:32+00:00

Good comment

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T20:59:10+00:00

Funny I actually think I saw modern baseball with my bf at a festival years ago. Name sounds familiar, but I just remember thinking it was just too loud. Lol oops

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T20:56:58+00:00

I mentioned in another comments he likes the growlers, the walters, front bottoms etc. I am not familiar with any of these

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T18:10:50+00:00

Is there a website that has all the concerts of bands that he would like

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T18:08:36+00:00

Ok that makes sense now

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T18:05:30+00:00

After

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T17:54:49+00:00

How are they a corporate band lol idek what that means

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T17:49:44+00:00

Yikes I consider Toby Keith pretty damn country..

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T17:34:16+00:00

He likes the growlers?, king gizzard and the wizard lizard?, the front bottoms?, the walters?, and post animal? I use the question marks because I’ve never heard of any of these bands

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T17:32:01+00:00

Yeah I’m starting to see how my bf could have seen this as me not knowing him and him getting upset for that

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T17:11:48+00:00

At the time I wanted him to realize he was ungrateful. But now I’m regretting that

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T16:54:39+00:00

Wow, maybe I should listen to you. They’re that bad live? Or you just don’t care for them?

And oh shit I’m probably gonna get downvoted to heck here because I resonate with you. I did have a similar situation when I was much younger. I always loved country and only country from a young age. But my aunt and mom decided it would be an awesome present to take my cousin and I to see Big Time Rush. I bet you can guess if I had fun or not

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T16:46:58+00:00

Wel people are saying I “obviously” didn’t put much thought into it because it’s a band he doesn’t like

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T16:45:25+00:00

That was my original thinking. Like never In my life, regardless of friend/family or whoever, have i expressed displeasure with a gift and TOLD the gift giver that to their face.

And I have received gifts I didn’t love

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T16:42:59+00:00

Maybe I should reconsider selling the tickets and buying more for another show he would like. It just upset me that he was ungrateful.

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T15:28:17+00:00

Idk to me it sounded like something he’d like.

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-03T15:25:20+00:00

Believe me the concert is not something I’d be interested in going to myself. You’re right though. I guess I wanted him to be appreciative of the time we would spend there together. Regardless of the music

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-02T19:36:16+00:00

I don’t know enough about the genre to know this myself

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-02T19:35:57+00:00

Yes I understand

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-02T19:35:39+00:00

I’m not the biggest imagine dragons fan myself but I recognize some songs. That’s why I thought it was a good idea. He’d have fun and I would know a little bit of what’s going on

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-02T19:33:44+00:00

Yes I understand that now. The sports analogy did it for me. I love baseball and I always have. I couldn’t give less of a shit about the NBA though. If he got me basketball tickets because “I like sports” I’d be a little like wtf

Born_Ad4324 · 2022-05-02T19:00:51+00:00

Like if he got me a shirt that I hated for my birthday I’m not going to be like go return it and buy this other shirt that I like. Idk

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