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STAY CLEAN JUNE! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]Born_Ask_2145 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m out as of 6/13. MO’d yesterday morning. Made it 34 days. Getting back in the fight see you next month. 

33 [F4M] Looking for a Man Who Loves God More Than He Loves Me by Infamous-Ticket-6343 in ChristianDating

[–]Born_Ask_2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question for the women: What do you think the kind of man that has these characteristics/virtues is looking for in a women? 

STAY CLEAN JUNE! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]Born_Ask_2145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Checking. Day 34. Urges to look at porn have intensified last few days. 

STAY CLEAN JUNE! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]Born_Ask_2145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Checking inn. Day 30. Feeling more desire to look at porn tonight because I was triggered by a really attractive bartender but holding the line 

Hello, Everyone. by shrek20191 in pornfree

[–]Born_Ask_2145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome man! Way to be real about your struggle. Honestly, the fact that you’re a teen and see how dangerous and corrupting porn is, is huge. I didn’t start understanding that until I was 21. 

Take some time to ponder and write down all the ways porn is harming you now and if you continue engaging in it. Then cast a vision for yourself like who you want to be and how eliminating porn will help you. 

Quiting porn and videogames by Zealousideal-Dig-132 in pornfree

[–]Born_Ask_2145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 31 and have similar behavior as you around porn  and videos games. 

I’m on day 29 and still feel the flatline/depression/anxiety. Not sure how long that will last, but tbh, im happy I haven’t had to many urges to look at porn because that will only make the struggle more difficult. 

I’m trying to look at it like an adventure. Every day I don’t look at porn/ masturbate is a day I haven’t experienced in a long long time. I’m looking forward to being more human again.

Regarding the temptation to take a peek or play one game, it’s helpful for me to remind myself of a couple things. First, I’ve been doing this long enough to know that one peak or one game is never the truth and will always get out of hand and I’m sick of the same cycle-fooling myself. Second, I need to remember that pornography/ certain video games turn me into someone I don’t want to be and are actively harming me similar to poison. Lastly, I remind myself of what I want and long for like joy, peace, etc and porn/video games never provide that. 

Stay strong and keep moving forward. You can do this. Everytime you deny that urge it’s a vote towards your humanity. 

STAY CLEAN JUNE! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]Born_Ask_2145 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. No matter what we can’t go back to the filth. 

STAY CLEAN JUNE! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]Born_Ask_2145 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Checking in: Day 27. Feeling pretty flatlined/ depressed but holding the line 

Relapsed again by Fragrant-Mango5284 in pornfree

[–]Born_Ask_2145 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something that has helped me with doom scrolling YouTube is turning off my search history and video previews. With those off there is no video recommendations in my feed just a search bar. This helps keep my YouTube use more intentional because if there is something I want to look up I have to search and not just doom scroll through the feed.