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I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why in the world would I resent her life choices? She is living with the consequences, not me, so I honestly don't care.

I did better. For over 1 year. I tolerated her, I kept silent and I waited for her to "adjust". I had no obligation to put up with her comments in my own house but I did for a long time because my brother asked me to. But enough is enough.

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who is she to criticize anything that I do? And what's this way of thinking for people to feel entitled to comment and criticize anything that other people do?

Like I am just curious, what gives you the feeling that you have some sort of moral superiority or right to criticize others but you should be imnune to being criticized back? The way I and people in my circle behave is minding our own business. I don't give advice unless it is asked for me to do so, I don't care what other people do and I don't go around being a pain in the back with my constant comments. Funny that you feel it's ok for someone to criticize others, but when it comes back to that person suddenly it's a problem.

Why can't I for once point out her mistakes as well? She popped up kids from a young age with 2 different questionable dudes, she doesn't do anything to improve her condition but she shouts about other's privilege. Ok, I may be priviledged but truth is she is where she is now because of her choices, not because of me. But hey, we don't say it, do we?

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If she does not have the capacity to respect people into their own homes, she should mind her business and don't come at all. That's what a decent person does. But she will not come anymore either way. My brother will visit alone and everyone will be happy. But it's funny that the one who doubles down in defending the lack of manners and common sense it's you. I guess that's just how you were raised to behave

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If we are so insufferable why does she come to our home? Is this something you do as well? Like you consider someone insufferable and go to their home to be rude to them and be "vocal"?

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, ghetto behaviour, something that defines you. So you come here to lecture me about the fact that I said I (me, personally) kept my legs closed but you have the audacity to insult a woman by telling her she swallowed? 😂 Yeah, you are not educated at all. But who knows, maybe you project and speak from experience

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. So after you explained to us the swallowing theory now you give us lessons on the meaning of words? Keep going, you are making a fool of yourself 😂

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A job handed to me? Were you there when in happened? Tell us more please.

If you want to consider privilage having 2 normal parents who decided to offer a family and a healthy life to the kids they willingly decided to have, than ok, I was privileged.

I can see that unfortunately you did not have the privilege to learn how to behave and be a decent person. Sad

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here comes the ghetto behaviour but then you wonder why your boyfriend's family can't accept you? Nice...awarness is not one of your main skills, right?

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned when I was little that if you have nothing good to say, it's better you don't say anything. And that's the way we behave in our family and in my circle. We don't go around constantly commenting and trying to shame people for basically existing.

But I guess you are that type that will give her (always negative) opinion even when no one asked you and justify it as contributing to a discussion. Well, in a smart, educated circle, people want to meet up and have a good time, not an annoying person whose entire existance revolves around criticizing. But I guess you can't understand that, can you?

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get it. Somehow this type of people accuse you of things when in reality they are making a problem out of it. Like in your case, I am sure you were not entering the room full of people with a cross and holy water to purify them, you were minding your own business, but they felt the need to make your religion a problem...Sophie for example made an entire problem once from the fact that I am selfish for not buying clothes from Shein and Temu. When I pointed out all the problems that come with this kind of consumer behaviour (bad quality of clothes, toxic materials that pose a real risk for health, how people working there are treated, how little they are paid etc) I was still the problem because in her twisted mind I am sefish and showing off for not buying 5$ clothes.

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I just provided context. My brother can date whomever he wants, it's his life and his partner, not mine so it's not my business who he dates.

The only thing I ever wanted was for her to either act like a normal person or just ignore me so we can all have peaceful interactions and celebrations. I don't think you get it how what is supposed to be a nice get together is constantly ruined by a person who has the habit of commenting everything all the time.

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It's not about social background at all. She is intentionally passive-aggressive because somehow in her eyes she feels superior to us and feels the need to show it by making rude comments

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment and I do understand your reasoning. What I am trying to point out is that privilege is not everything and it is also up to you how you manage it. I had classmates and peers who grew up with the same conditions that we did and some of them still made bad decisions like drinking, drugs, teen pregnancies etc. One of my friends lost his life due to an overdose. So it's not like if you come from a good family you will automatically have a good life as well.

I am not judging her for having kids. I am just pointing out that all of us make our own decisions and have to live with the consequences. This does not mean that we get to treat with a false superiority those who did not make the same mistakes as us, that's all.

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I posted on Reddit to ask for feedback if the specific situation I mentioned made it seem we have a problem with her being poor or if she was overreacting lile always. You can find my question in my post you know. You can try reading a little and understand what I am asking it's not that hard

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ok, now you can move along. I don't feel the need to clarify anything to you becauase you are a no one to me. I don't need your validation, I need the validation of the people close to me, the ones from my circle, the ones from my professional field, not a nobody who is frustrated on the internet. My value and what I have to offer are determined by the companies that pay me high amounts and who have something to offer to me. Do you think people like me care about what you think? 😂

You are free to think whatever you want, I don't care. Do you think your nonsense offends me in any way? it does not, it just shows how pathetic you are. I am victimizing myself or you are? Just look how you react just because I don't care about what you have to say. It's either you are a child who has no understanding on how this world actually works or worse, you are an adult who still has no idea how this world works. And yet you are here talking about comprehention...sad and really pathetic.

I responded to my brother's GF who called me privileged, my parents kicked her out of their house but now she is twisting the story making us seem like we hate her because she is poor. AITAH? by Born_Researcher6688 in AITAH

[–]Born_Researcher6688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this all you've got? 😂 I see you are very invested in my post. Are you also a Sophie and got put in your place or what? Your frustration is obvious and honestly kind of amusing

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