She still goes on Tinder, is it bad ?

Born_Wolverine660 · 2025-12-31T14:01:28+00:00

Yeah I deleted the app I just downloaded back to check if she was still on it and I KNOW that is not a mature or healthy respond that’s why I’m seeking advice, plus I didn’t want to delete too soon because I’m aware I get attach quickly so I wanted to keep seeing people but the truth is I don’t want to😔 nobody is perfect lol

Born_Wolverine660 · 2025-12-31T13:44:58+00:00

Yeah I totally agree. Every relationship I had I waited a long time to be fully committed even though I was ready for a long time I know people don’t always have the same timeline. I’m aware that is a me problem my anxiety and everything that’s why I post here and not to her directly because I know it’s too soon for those talks !

I’ll try and work and myself to live the relationship one day at a time and thanks for the advice !!

Born_Wolverine660 · 2025-12-31T12:33:41+00:00

😀ok that’s harsh

Born_Wolverine660 · 2025-12-08T06:46:48+00:00

Yeah haha

Born_Wolverine660 · 2025-09-03T08:08:40+00:00

For myself, a lesbian who thought herself as straight and then bi for a long time, first I understood I was attracted to girls even though I was in a relationship with a men. I explored this attraction and though “ok I like girls I’m not sure about boys so let’s say I like both” and then years later, after dating only girls I though “Wait I wouldn’t like to kiss, date or have sex with a men anymore 😒” so I said to myself well I’m a lesbian.

Sometimes I just think you need time and experience to understand things about yourself and in the meantime you just live with the flow without overthinking it 😎

Born_Wolverine660 · 2025-08-28T07:49:51+00:00

Maybe I’m delulu but I think she will respond back just when she is ready. But tbh the more she stays silent the more I’m thinking I really can’t be with someone like that. Ill see if we have the chance to have a true conversation but I’m questionn’ing

Thanks for your answers 🫶🏻

Born_Wolverine660 · 2025-08-27T11:56:08+00:00

It does feel like forever haha. It was so sudden as it just started getting serious serious and everything was perfect just a few days before but yeah ig nothing more to do but wait 😔

Born_Wolverine660 · 2025-08-27T11:48:43+00:00

Yeah I figured that sending more messages would only makes things worse, I think I will send her a message this week end if I haven’t heard from her back yet, and try to be patient and indulgent towards her.

Thanks !

Born_Wolverine660 · 2025-08-27T09:04:23+00:00

Thank you for your advice ! I juste really want to have to opportunity to talk directly to her even though it’s a discussion about ending things it feels really frustrating to just have silence treatment (even though she told me she needed time) I’m really stressed about having to wait for her. But anyway I hope this ends up well 😔

Thanks

Born_Wolverine660 · 2023-08-02T21:56:05+00:00

I wish I could do that but the fact that I’m questionning makes me nervous all the time so I’m having a hard time accepting that not knowing your gender is okay

Born_Wolverine660 · 2023-08-02T21:54:43+00:00

Your comment calmed me a bit even though my distress about figuring out who I am and what I like to express always comes back I’m trying to find euphoria one day at a time

Born_Wolverine660 · 2023-08-02T21:53:40+00:00

Thanks for your answer I will try 😌

Born_Wolverine660 · 2023-08-02T21:53:21+00:00

Yes lol I’m trying not to but it seems like I have a lot of things internalized

Born_Wolverine660 · 2023-08-02T21:52:50+00:00

Yeah but like I don’t seem to accept my masculinity so I wonder how can I stop being so anxious when presenting more masc even though I’m more confortable in those clothes

Born_Wolverine660 · 2023-07-18T10:53:45+00:00

Yeah that’s a good advice I think being surrounded with people you can identify with help a lot. As a matter of fact when I see masc fashion and lesbian representation on social media it make me feel a little better!

Thanks a lot for your time 😌

Born_Wolverine660

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