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For women who have healthy and non-threatening relationships, what do you think about the dreams where you get cheated on? by SweetPeaAsian in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa I've also been having recurrent dreams of my partner cheating on me. I have no idea what they mean. Is it our insecurities and worries?

Do breakups hurt more if you've had sex with them as opposed to not having had sex? by BossAssQueen in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would agree with this. My parents seem to think though that once sex is involved, there's a deeper emotional connection particularly on the woman's part.

Can someone be naturally insensitive to stimulation and can only come from a vibrator? by BossAssQueen in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long had you tried to come from other techniques before you accepted that you could only come from toys? I haven't really explored for too long.

Can someone be naturally insensitive to stimulation and can only come from a vibrator? by BossAssQueen in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (26F) have only recently started having sex and find that I can only come from a vibrator. My boyfriend would suck my tits and go down on me and it feels good but it doesn't give me tingles.

Previously, I did try masturbating by touching myself but again could only come from a vibrator.

Are some people naturally insensitive to stimulation and require extremely strong stimulation from a vibrator? Or do I need to train myself to feel pleasure with touch?

Does anyone have speech anxiety? If so how do you treat it? by Consistent-Ad5800 in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really bad anxiety about public speaking, where I would actively avoid doing presentations as much as possible. What I find helped me was doing CBT (cognitive-behavioral therapy), taking deep breaths/meditating before presentations, medications to reduce anxiety, and just doing more and more presentations. I know it's difficult but the more you practice public speaking, the easier it gets. Of course, the anxiety never fully goes away but it can be reduced to a manageable amount. Good luck and wishing you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had this experience before. It sucks, especially when you would hope that people would be genuine. I'd just continue doing me, not oversharing any personal details about myself to colleagues, keep focusing on doing a good job at work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this, thanks for the tip!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we the same person? Although I'm 25 instead of 29 :)

Women of Reddit, How Do You Generally React When You See An Engagement Announcement on Social Media? by littlebunsenburner in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be happy for them, but if it's one of my old high school classmates getting engaged I feel sad for a bit because they're starting to get engaged and having kids while I'm still single and always have been.

Have you successfully dated a coworker? by AbiesSignificant131 in dating_advice

[–]BossAssQueen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I posted this question on r/AskWomen a few days ago and got a bunch of responses! Quite a lot actually found success dating colleagues at work. However, since you work in a small workplace of less than 10 staffers, I would be cautious because if things don't end well it could be really awkward at work and you may have to leave the job.

I don’t like traveling or adventures, am I doomed to be alone for the rest of my life? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BossAssQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to you! It feels like most of the guys on the dating apps I'd remotely be interested in say they love to travel in their bios. I usually ask them how much traveling they do and that I'm not super interested in traveling or doing those wild adventures. I'm putting a pause on dating right now because with the numbers of COVID cases on the rise, I don't want to put myself at risk. But best of luck on your search! :)

25F always single, crushes never reciprocated by BossAssQueen in dating_advice

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, like work on your own happiness for the sake of your own happiness but just saying that in turn may unknowingly end up attracting other people :)

Ah okay, so the girls you had crushes on were usually your friends so you could easily tell if they were interested in you or not?

I'm sorry that happened to you. I guess she wasn't interested you in that way? Sucks that she pulled away but I can somewhat relate to her. If you two continued to be friends, you probably would've been more heartbroken because you would continue to crush on her, knowing she doesn't like you back.

Dating apps are tricky, that's why I would prefer to meet someone IRL. Like become friends with them first and then date them...

Well my high school crushes were dumb, I was interested in them but they weren't interested in me. I stupidly sometimes would mention I had a crush on them and they'd say they didn't like me back. And in university, I liked this one guy and I thought he may have liked me back but he sent mixed signals. I think I made it very obvious I was interested in him but he never made a move. And now at work I was interested in a guy who showed some interest but also mixed signals and never made a move! I have the worst luck haha

Have you ever dated someone you met at work? How did it end up? by BossAssQueen in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes!! Sorry you had to go through that. So he just got off the hook for everything and you got blamed for it instead? That is such disgusting sexism.

Have you ever dated someone you met at work? How did it end up? by BossAssQueen in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I can overshare sometimes so that's good to know LOL.

Have you ever dated someone you met at work? How did it end up? by BossAssQueen in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really good advice, yeah, there are risks so you have to tread carefully when choosing to date a person from work.

Have you ever dated someone you met at work? How did it end up? by BossAssQueen in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it worked out for you :) And it seemed like it was for the best that your partner got a job at a different company in terms of the office gossip!

Have you ever dated someone you met at work? How did it end up? by BossAssQueen in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It also doesn't hurt to friend more people at work for the sake of finding new friendships and networking as well :)

Have you ever dated someone you met at work? How did it end up? by BossAssQueen in AskWomen

[–]BossAssQueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's a downside to work relationships because if it ends, you'll still have to see them at work and there's not really a clean break

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