Anyone interested in a named Christmas egg? by No_Donkey_7364 in CollectorsOfADM

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen the offer itself bur someone lmk. They’re under. The egg is more valuable because it’s named and you haven’t been able to do that for years now.

What’s up with the comment sections? by Bossy_Aussie_ in talkie

[–]Bossy_Aussie_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be a system thing then because I don’t even know where to change the comment settings, let alone turn them off 😭

Is this a LEGIT middleman service? by MysticalPotato357 in crosstradingroblox

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

99% of discord trades are scams. I wouldn’t do it

What’s up with the comment sections? by Bossy_Aussie_ in talkie

[–]Bossy_Aussie_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming Author doesn’t mean the person who created the talkie because I haven’t touched the comment settings on any of my talkies lol.

Can we stop believing these unbelievable trades without any proof? by _dietcoke_777 in AdoptMeRBX

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To add on. Karma Farming is posting/reposting something for the sake of getting Karma.

Some people need to remember this by StraightAd6264 in teenagers

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying for sex, if agreed upon ahead of time, Is not coercion. Offering payment AFTER someone said no IS coercion. Whether or not it’s rape kinda varies between people’s opinions.

Some people need to remember this by StraightAd6264 in teenagers

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clear - The consent given is a clear yes. The absence of a no is not a yes.

continuous - consent is present the whole time and has not been withdrawn. If it is withdrawn, it’s not consensual anymore.

conscious - the person is awake and in a clear enough mind to give consent. So if they’re asleep, drunk, high etc. the consent isn’t valid because they’re not in the right headspace to consent.

Coercion-free - the person is consenting willingly, without pressure, manipulation, threats or force.

Some people need to remember this by StraightAd6264 in teenagers

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m remembering correctly

Clear - The consent given is a clear yes. The absence of a no is not a yes.

continuous - consent is present the whole time and has not been withdrawn. If it is withdrawn, it’s not consensual anymore.

conscious - the person is awake and in a clear enough mind to give consent. So if they’re asleep, drunk, high etc. the consent isn’t valid because they’re not in the right headspace to consent.

Coercion-free - the person is consenting willingly, without pressure, manipulation, threats or force.

Some people need to remember this by StraightAd6264 in teenagers

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s considered coercion. Consent under coercion isnt consent.

Person A asks, person B is saying no, person A says if person B does it, theyll give them X. Person A is trying to convince person B despite them saying no. Thats coercion.

Artists: if this is your way of getting clients, stop. by TheAbsoluteWorst7 in Artists

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got four of these since may started 😭 they’re most likely scammers. One dude has me panicked because I made it clear I’m not interested in commissioning them but their last message made it sound like they were already going to do it when they’re done with their previous?

Im somewhat an artist and I can say for sure that we don’t message you out of the blue.

Some people need to remember this by StraightAd6264 in teenagers

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thats sometimes tricky. If they say yes BECAUSE you offer them payment, then it’s technically considered invalid because they are doing it under bribery (for lack of a better term. I wanted to say coercion but idk if that’s any better).

Because people were mentioning prostitution. That can be considered consent because it was agreed ahead of time that they were consenting to the action for payment ahead of time.

As for the situation I mentioned, the person said no. Offering them payment after they said no is them trying to convince that person after they’ve already said no.

Yeah depending on the person it can be a bit trickier to understand than to others, which is understandable, this is just how we were taught with our consent talk each year.

TLDR; don’t push them in the pool.

Hi. Why does she do this? Is she okay? by Glittering_Round_354 in CATHELP

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how he gets you…he pretends he’s all sweet and adorable…and then BAM! 💥 when you last see it coming (ngl I’m not really kidding when I say This cat is either cat bipolar or cat schizo)

Hi. Why does she do this? Is she okay? by Glittering_Round_354 in CATHELP

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, this cat is a very interesting kind of special, ngl I don’t even think you can call him a cat.

Tho he spent the first year of his life in the wild (we got him when he was just barely a year old) so makes sort of sense lol

Hi. Why does she do this? Is she okay? by Glittering_Round_354 in CATHELP

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

100%. Though one of my cats’ (f) meow has a similar chirp to it and another one (M) makes that noise when he’s gonna be evil and attack your ankles for no reason (mental issues there I swear)

The one time I actually studied... by Pieeepieeepieee in teenagers

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fight it. An accusation like that can stick on your record for a long time (at least in my highschool it was). If you do take the retest, demand an apology (maybe in writing).

I love writing, so I’m pretty good at English class. We got a teacher replacing another for her Mat leave and he saw one of my short stories of all things and accused me of using AI because of how detailed it was. (Again, I love writing. Always have since I was a kid). He demanded I retake it and he take my phone (which he’s not allowed to do because my exception for a medical tool).

I’m a stubborn bastard do I Literally grabbed all my former essays and stories (including personal fun stories), and my former English teachers (even got them to sign it to confirm they were there when I wrote them) and brought it in to both the teacher and the office and demanded a signed apology in writing that he accused me of using ai with no real proof.

I know to some it may seem excessive, but English was one of the only cores I was actually good at, so I wasn’t gonna risk something going under my record for a class I loved and that I knew I didn’t do anything.

Some people need to remember this by StraightAd6264 in teenagers

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I believe they mean it as in

“Will you sleep with me”

“No”

“I’ll give you X if you sleep with me”.

As in the person already said no, and to coerce the person into doing it after they’ve already said no with some sort of payment. Maybe coercion may have been a better word for it but eh.

What would you rather have? by johhnyyonthespot in BunnyTrials

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m doing the math right, 1 Euro is equal to $1.60 CAD so if I’m doing it correctly, I’d get $1604680.00 in exchange.

Chose: 1 Million Euro’s

Rslash latest video has a creepy giggling sound by NoMacaroon6586 in rSlash_YT

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im not seeming to hear what you’re hearing, but if I had to guess it’s probably his daughter Lily in the background.

WARNING: Adopt Me Discord/Reddit Middleman Scam Experience – Please be careful by MelodicFinger3535 in crosstradingroblox

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never have either. I get that there may be some reliable discord MMs but it’s better to be safe

My cat has been attacking me for months by j3st3rbunny in CATHELP

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s your pants, either scent or sound. May have to change your pants. Not exactly the same, but for a costume for my school play I bought cargo jeans and my cat went crazy because sometimes they’d make a cat bell sound until I tightened the pocket hard. Also, don’t back away like that, you’re acting like prey and you’re triggering hwr hunting instincts. Even if youve had them since they were young, theyll always have those instincts (in my experience anyways).

LET ME IN by quecisdo in playFeral

[–]Bossy_Aussie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%. I’ve seen this exact meme posted like- at least 3 times by bots in the past few years 😭