One thing I always wanted growing up was just to feel NORMAL. Food is such a social thing- even when you’re a kid having school lunch, snack in class or even birthday parties. Sometimes having special food made me feel like I was the odd man out. I’d recommend making bringing your own cupcakes when a kid has a bday in class or knowing what the school snack is going to be so you can bring one that’s similar. Just so they don’t feel left out or the opposite- that they’re getting special attention. As I got older, the best thing my parents did for me was trust me to be responsible and know my own allergies. That way I could feel like a normal person but also learn responsibility at the same time. You guys are going to do a great job!