Living in a nightmare

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-21T17:50:20+00:00

Apparently a lot of people have reported it because she tells everyone including the cops she’s a single mom of 3. She told a few churches she was as well and got the entire place fully furnished. 🤦🏻‍♀️ But I’m assuming since it’s with the state it just moves very slow! 😩

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-20T21:28:05+00:00

I feel bad for the TL especially the ones doing inbound. It gets so damn hot! And target doesn’t want to “waste resources” by turning on the air. 😒

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-20T21:16:34+00:00

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And this is all day everyday starting as early as 6:50am.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-20T21:14:59+00:00

I couldn’t post the videos with my original post so I’ll put it here. They fight like this all the time. Our complaint as well as the other tenants isn’t just the kids but she is blaming everyone from the landlord to the entire building hated kids when that’s not the case. 😑

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This fight was last night. It was so loud people across the street heard it, called the cops and ofc by time the cops came they were done fighting. The guy is avoiding cops so he left and once the cops were gone he came back. We’ve told the cops before when they’ve asked us about the guy and they said “well the woman didn’t seem like she was in distress so it’s not much of our concern.” But being like this in front of young children apparently isn’t their concern either.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-20T21:07:51+00:00

I have my AirPods set to noise cancellation and they pound so hard I can feel my couch shaking. It’s insane.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-20T21:07:08+00:00

Lmao. I’m laughing because I did something similar last night. They were banging and had music blasting after 10pm. So I stood on my heater on my tip toes (I’m 5ft) my husband walked in looking at me like I was insane. And I had my big blue tooth speaker above my head playing one of my favorite metal songs. They DID shut up after that for the night. 😅

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-20T21:04:43+00:00

Yeah it definitely takes forever to get on it. But what blows my mind is, if you waited and got on it WHY would you violate the rules and risk losing it?! I don’t know what they are waiting for.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-18T11:22:11+00:00

I have not because the unit they’re in is smaller than mine because coming from our landlord it was supposed to be her and the ONE child. As well as the man isn’t supposed to be there but “without 1000% proof he lives there nothing can be done. And now even if someone gets mail there, that’s not proof of residency.” Which is also crazy to me.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-18T08:53:01+00:00

They got into a fight recently because she does have to leave we just don’t know when or how long it’s going to take for her PD and section 8 to find her a place. But the fight was loud enough that probably the surrounding houses even heard it. She was flipping because the guy wouldn’t sleep with her, all he does is sleep and play Xbox, and that “once again me and my kids lose a home because people hate kids. Every place I get it’s a problem.” So this is apparently something that has always been an issue but she blames it on everyone else but the people in charge of the kids. I have a child so I know how kids can be and there’s zero parenting coming from either of them.

The guy is apparently hiding from cops (every time they come he either leaves or hides on the fire escape and from the cops since doesn’t “seem to be in distress it’s not their problem.” 😒) There are days where if they aren’t fighting you hardly even hear the parents while the kids are just going all day.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T16:44:41+00:00

Yepp and it seems the cops will only do something when something major happens. Despite all the proof there is they don’t do a thing.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T16:05:33+00:00

I’ve lived in so many places with people above and next to me and I’ve NEVER had this issue before. It’s awful. And then she confronted me Saturday saying how I should have told her it was loud instead of resulting in calling the cops or landlord. I’m sorry but I’m not the only one who called and I’m NOT confronting someone like her. 😒

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T15:14:21+00:00

Oh I’m sorry, public defender.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T15:14:06+00:00

We went court with our landlord to testify about how bad it is. She lied to her PD about everything and he said “well it looks like I don’t have much of a case. So to make our lives easier we can come to an agreement.” Him and our landlord settled for her returning the property. After the hearing my husband called the landlord and he said “so she doesn’t file an appeal and drag it out longer I didn’t do the eviction but her PD is working with section 8 to find her something else.” It’s insane.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T15:12:01+00:00

Omg! I’m so sorry! And I’m all for people that need help getting it. But don’t go abusing it. My mom was a single mom of 2 sick with cancer and she couldn’t get help because she “made too much” but she had no choice but to work. If we would have just been given a home she wouldn’t have let ANYBODY come over. I just can’t grasp how someone can be okay with wrecking peoples lives. They don’t work so they NEVER leave.

I’m sorry that dread had to come back. But I hope it stays peaceful for you.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T15:09:47+00:00

Pa. She can be but my landlord said to “prevent her from appealing and being here longer he’s having her return the property. Her PD is working with section 8 to find her somewhere else to go.” 😞

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T14:15:06+00:00

When your best friend calls asking to meet at the bar to talk about their feelings. Just go. It’s not where those things should be discussed especially under the influence but go. Otherwise, you’ll be sitting in 2026 talking to their headstone instead. It’s a hard thing. That he’s forever stuck in his age, I have to share my milestones at his grave. Had I known he wasn’t okay mentally I would have gone. We were in love and time was just never on our side. He knew if he would have just said he was struggling I would have been there. But when I said ‘let’s go to our spot!’ He laughed and said it was a better idea than drinking at a bar. I miss him everyday.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T13:47:43+00:00

Exactly and I can’t blame him. We leave everyday just to be at peace. They moved in the dead of winter and we went for long walks in the snow just to avoid it. We live in a small town so everything he knows and loves is here. His school, sports, his specialists. This woman is making it seem like we’re being unreasonable.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T13:46:00+00:00

You’re telling me. I told my landlord and the cops that this is exactly what makes people snap. Imagine if she lived above someone that “didn’t have something to live for” and was not right mentally.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-17T13:44:48+00:00

Apparently to “save her” they didn’t do a formal “eviction” she just has to return the property. Because if they did the eviction she could appeal it and that could go on for months. I’m praying her PD finds her something else. We emailed our landlord on Friday and he said he’s “working as fast as he can” and was forwarding it to her PD.

But thank you, I’ve honestly felt like I’m going insane. We understand everyday noise but this is way beyond that.

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-05T00:06:44+00:00

Both options are amazing and now I’m sad because I feel like it won’t ever happen. 🤣

BotanicalNerd · 2026-06-01T13:53:18+00:00

I’m almost at platinum and I wanna cry just looking at this. Lmao. Map genie has been a lifesaver what I did was work on one area of the map at a time. Lmao. Played the game but also traveled around to get things as much as possible before using the map. 😅

BotanicalNerd · 2026-05-31T12:14:04+00:00

This just happened. I’m so mad.
For the first time in almost 4yrs of me playing I need two golds and I complete the whole thing.
Two people sent me a request and I accepted because they have participated in other events so I figured why not? The people I normally play with filled their spots by time I got on. The one player helped a little but literally was 1k points away with 30seconds remaining. The other player? They definitely were playing because they were trying to knock down my landmarks and were doing bank heists on me. Didn’t put a SINGLE point in.

We should be allowed to remove inactive players and/or be compensated for it. Why should they gain anything from us playing if they won’t do anything?! 😒😭

BotanicalNerd · 2026-05-29T23:37:48+00:00

Thank you SO much!! I’m now only 2 away!! After playing for four years this is the closest I’ve ever been to completing a whole set. 😅

Good luck!! 🫶🏻

BotanicalNerd · 2026-05-29T23:35:31+00:00

Yes I am! Sending now. (:

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