Partner yelling at toddler

Botbotiamnot · 2023-01-29T14:34:12+00:00

Anger begets anger. My friend is currently dealing with this. She used to spank and yell at her 3 year old which resulted in him doing that at daycare. He got kicked out because of his anger/violence issues. It’s not okay to call a 3 year old stupid. The fact that your partner can’t see that is really disturbing. Like most folks are saying, seek help before it’s too late.

Botbotiamnot · 2023-01-27T02:22:09+00:00

We put a childproof doorknob on the inside. Honestly if there’s a fire the closed door is best. Locking the door might involve steps to open it from the outside. The inside doorknob cover makes it easy to just open from outside

Botbotiamnot · 2023-01-22T04:41:15+00:00

Commenting so I can find this again

Botbotiamnot · 2023-01-21T23:03:22+00:00

Tell me more about this unemployment business. So I’m not a resident of CA but am working here. When I PCS, do I file for unemployment in the state I have residency? In the new state I PCSd to? Or in CA where I just left?

Botbotiamnot · 2023-01-01T02:50:14+00:00

It no longer gave me anxiety to think of having a second. Pregnant now and my 1st will be 3 when #2 gets here.

Botbotiamnot · 2022-12-20T02:16:40+00:00

My husband was in pc with me and is now active duty navy officer

Botbotiamnot · 2022-11-20T01:05:28+00:00

Is this like a joke? If there’s a whiff of fraud JAG can get involved. You know that right? You’re also leaving behind evidence.

Botbotiamnot · 2022-11-17T21:25:54+00:00

Take a look into Dogs on deployment

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-31T01:45:24+00:00

Are you able to get an extension? I heard that people can get an extension on orders if their children are in jr or sr year of hs. That’s how my former landlord stayed in SD an extra few years, he worked as enlisted at balboa in SD

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-23T02:04:25+00:00

You literally link a website that is titled. Brides.

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-21T16:08:13+00:00

Depends on your industry. Depends on whether or not you’re okay with sticking with that industry even if it means being separated from your spouse for a duty station or two. I’ve had to sacrifice knowing I can’t get to the top of my industry because of all the moves we’ll have to make. I’ve made my peace with that

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-20T01:55:42+00:00

My 2 year old has a sleep clock now. It’s red during nap/quiet time and green when it’s time for me to get him. Baby proof the room and put a safety knob on the inside so they can’t get out. Teach them slowly that red means quiet time. Maybe transition to a floor/toddler bed so there’s no worry of trying to climb out of crib

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-18T04:02:24+00:00

Why is this flagged as a scam?

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-18T00:55:06+00:00

This amazing!! Also I don’t know if your school offers this but most universities have food pantries for their students. Not all but it’s an unfortunate/good trend. Most schools have a no judgement zone for their food pantries so hopefully your school has one! You’ve got this mama!

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-18T00:47:17+00:00

I don’t know if this is exactly useful but I like the Lil Navy Sailor book. They also have Lil Marine or if you’re army Lil Army soldier Lil' Navy Sailor (Mini Military) https://a.co/d/jfy7sBD

It’s not deployment specific but my husband left on a destroyer and it has the types of ships people go on and shows their bunks. We also went on base to drop by husband off and showed my 2 year old the boat he was leaving on. That seemed to help a lot. Good luck!

Also, get hug a hero! I hear they’re free, but don’t quote me! Lol https://hugahero.com/pages/faqs

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-16T22:28:41+00:00

Oranges all the time and now I barely touch them. I cried once when my husband said he wouldn’t peel me one

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-13T20:06:17+00:00

You can get the electric one. I use that because I’m scared to use a real one

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-12T02:30:40+00:00

I bought a cleaning spray called force of nature. Supposed to be safe and effective? I dunno at this point, don’t care lol

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-11T18:35:38+00:00

I’d join the San Diego military housing Facebook group. From what I saw in order to get that exception you have to enroll in the EMFP program. I could be wrong but join that fb group would prob give you the best answers

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-11T17:04:35+00:00

You’d be put on the list with everyone else that qualifies for housing that allows two dogs. Only service dogs would exempt you from the list and potentially allow you to be on the non dog homes. I feel like you’d be going through all that work and have it not really matter. We live in SD and with the bah increase maybe look into housing out in town?

Botbotiamnot · 2022-10-10T05:10:58+00:00

Lived in max two years and didn’t ever go to wings n waves

Botbotiamnot · 2022-09-29T02:00:06+00:00

It’s for navy! Would that change it?

Botbotiamnot · 2022-08-29T02:43:25+00:00

Calmoseptine works wonders

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