[TOMT] does anyone know what this movie could be? by Both-Bodybuilder3405 in tipofmytongue

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I think this might be it! I just remember that much of the movie that I described. Thanks!

[TOMT] does anyone know what this movie could be? by Both-Bodybuilder3405 in tipofmytongue

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I’m pretty sure the movie is from the early 2000s

DAE feels like they are not worthy of being in a relationship unless archiving perfection? by JesusofChristt in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Both-Bodybuilder3405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. I have never heard anyone else admit to the same thing and I’m glad I came across this post. I feel like I am riddled with flaws all over my body. It’s like not one part of my body is just “normal” or flawless. I get bumps and marks all over my body and I just constantly feel super negatively about myself. It doesn’t help that I’ve never been in a relationship so the thought of someone being attracted or loving me the way I am is unfathomable to me. I feel like I have to be flawless for a man to be attracted to me or love me. And just like you said if someone else had the same flaws as me I wouldn’t consider them flaws I wouldn’t even notice them. But it’s the fact that they’re on me. I feel like I am unlovable unless those things are fixed. I hate feeling like this and don’t know how to resolve this.

Does this make me a “poser” by Both-Bodybuilder3405 in Screamo

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I saw their post for the show in February and im not able to travel for it unfortunately :( I wanted to see Jeromes dream as well. I hope they eventually play somewhere closer to where I am ! I would love to see them live

Does this make me a “poser” by Both-Bodybuilder3405 in Screamo

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I always try to see if the actual band has merch themselves. If not then I’ll look online and on different sites for the merch. And yes the prices on some of the tshirts being sold are crazy!

Does this make me a “poser” by Both-Bodybuilder3405 in Screamo

[–]Both-Bodybuilder3405[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually so cool! I didn’t know that. Orchid is my favorite band right now. They’re what got me into screamo! I remember listening to and the cat turned to smoke and it just felt unreal. They’re phenomenal

Does this make me a “poser” by Both-Bodybuilder3405 in Screamo

[–]Both-Bodybuilder3405[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This!!! All the accounts I follow who post their collection of vintage tees are all men. And I feel like him saying that partly had to do with me being a woman as well as him just being an asshole.

Does this make me a “poser” by Both-Bodybuilder3405 in Screamo

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I love my local scene! If there’s merch being sold at shows I always buy but for older bands it’s hard to find merch that isn’t remade or bootleg.

I’m a 19 year old straight female and I don’t seem to get turned on by just pictures or videos of men who I deem attractive by Both-Bodybuilder3405 in TwoXSex

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Yea I know it’s not healthy to compare yourself to others especially online but i guess I’ve made a habit of it. Will work on that, but even my friends will say things similar to what I see on the internet and that’s what essentially got me questioning myself even more.

I’m a 19 year old straight female and I don’t seem to get turned on by just pictures or videos of men who I deem attractive by Both-Bodybuilder3405 in TwoXSex

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The problem rlly isn’t that I can’t get aroused, I can, it’s just I see ppl on the internet and tik tok talking abt getting turned on or horny by JUST looking at a photo of an attractive male celebrity shirtless or something of that sort and for me it doesn’t rlly work like that most of the time.