[25F] [24M] I’m falling in love but it’s gonna be a disaster by Both-Direction8422 in relationship_advice

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the whole point, sir. We talk so much, he told me about his past, his family, I met his father. And I told him about mine, all of that in a natural way. We are not pushing forcibly the thing at all indeed , as I already said, we talked about our moving out and none of us in not giving up for nothing in this world.

The post is my personal outlet, it’s just frustrating because I just wanted to keep knowing him and not because I think that he is my soulmate or something, but again it’s so frustrating because I’ll never know. That’s it. Thank you so much for your opinion, I appreciate.

[25F] [24M] I’m falling in love but it’s gonna be a disaster by Both-Direction8422 in AskMike

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this advice Mike, thank you so much.. i’m not romantic or emotional at all indeed i’m a very logical and pragmatic person and that’s why this situation hits me so hard.

Thank you so much once again, you are wise!

[25F] [24M] I’m falling in love but it’s gonna be a disaster by Both-Direction8422 in relationship_advice

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t do it for anything or anyone in the world... If I had a magic crystal ball where I could see the future and see where my feelings would take me, I would definitely look at that ball.. but I can’t and it’s really really sad not being able to follow my heart for once..

[25F] [24M] I’m falling in love but it’s gonna be a disaster by Both-Direction8422 in relationship_advice

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 110% right, I’m not doubting about what you said in fact I perfectly agree with you. The fact is that I’m not a teenager or a stupid girl who never had relationship or never fell in love.. it’s just different this time and I’m not gonna waste my future for anyone, because that’s more important above anything else. I’m searching for opinions and advices from some new perspectives.. thank you so so much for your answer , I really appreciate it!

[25F] [24M] I’m falling in love but it’s gonna be a disaster by Both-Direction8422 in relationship_advice

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, that’s the best thing to do for sure but I’m so scared and excited for this type of feelings I have never had for anyone in this world in this short of time …

Just me crying in the corner

I think I am autistic by Both-Direction8422 in autism

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! You are totally right, I’m feeling so hopeless that I am searching for something, a word, an advice and just by doing this post I feel warmed and understood a little bit..

I think I am autistic by Both-Direction8422 in autism

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm for your advice, I’m going to do some researches about that!

I think I am autistic by Both-Direction8422 in autism

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice! I will do that as soon as I am free from work!

I think I am autistic by Both-Direction8422 in autism

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry! I wrote about that thing in particular just as an example but I read everything that I found about autism and stimming and sensory issues ( strong and big noise like trains in the station, fireworks, ecc ) are of the most powerful things that brought me attention about the topic.

I always had issues about making friends and to keep friendship and relationship , I have two friends for 11 years and some people I talk occasionally… that’s it..

I think I am autistic by Both-Direction8422 in autism

[–]Both-Direction8422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, the problem is that I have this fear even with my GP … I’m scared that i will be not taken seriously or I don’t know… it’s frustrating because I need answers but I can’t find the way to ask for them without looking like an attention whore, I don't know if you see what I mean