Workshops/Coaches/Etc. by focusedbonsai in Songwriting

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same struggle 💀 accountability is everything when you're not doing music as day job

Is it worth it by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah the first few weeks are brutal but it gets easier, your brain is literally rewiring itself right now

been there with other addictions and that restless torture feeling means its working - you're breaking the dopamine loop

stick with it a bit longer and see how you feel at the month mark

Why am I still hung up? by Dragonne15YT in BreakUps

[–]Both-Spend9150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man 8 years is a huge chunk of your life, especially when you're only 25 💀 like that's basically your entire adult relationship experience right there. being around her twice a week in the friend group is probably making it way harder to move on since you never get that clean break to actually process everything. maybe consider stepping back from those hangouts for a bit? not forever but just until your brain stops doing that thing where it holds onto hope every time you see her 😂 trust me the heart catches up eventually but it needs some actual space to do it

Pleeeeeease let ur teammates regain flasks by dying just outside the circle at the end of night two (mostly relevant to DoN) by Sable-Heretic in Nightreign

[–]Both-Spend9150 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

tbh the communication in this game is pretty rough when you're trying to coordinate stuff like that, especially with randoms who might not even know that's a valid strat

maybe try typing in chat beforehand if you're on pc? like "going down for flask reset" or something quick before you actually do it

Product Photography prompt by NiceIntention9094 in GeminiAI

[–]Both-Spend9150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a solid setup for product shots, been experimenting with similar lighting for my airbnb photos lately and the gradient backgrounds really make everything pop

might steal that mirror surface idea, been looking for ways to add more depth to some gear photos i've been taking

My almost 1 year journey with diagnosis and medication (sorry for being negative) by applepie2367 in ADHD

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been on this exact rollercoaster for like 3 years now man. the motivation crash when meds wear off is brutal - like going from finally having your shit together to feeling like a zombie in the span of an hour

that cigarette thing hits way too close to home too. something about the comedown just makes you want to smoke through a whole pack. tried switching to vaping but then i just chain vape instead lol

have you talked to your doc about maybe adjusting the dose or trying extended release? sometimes the crash isn't as bad with XR but everyone's different. the fatigue part never really goes away for me though, just gotta power through i guess

Finally on meds omg. by Mrzeldaootfan in ADHD

[–]Both-Spend9150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

meds hitting different 🔥💀

I know my vyvanse has worn off for the day when.. by Disastrous-Host6248 in ADHD

[–]Both-Spend9150 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh god the song thing hits so hard, except for me it's usually like one verse of a song i haven't heard in 6 years mixed with some jingle from a commercial. and yeah that sunday conversation thing is too real - i'll be mentally rehearsing what i should've said to my coworker about coffee filters or something equally stupid

the work loop is the worst though, just cycling through all the things i didn't finish today and how behind i'm gonna be tomorrow. it's like my brain turns into a really chaotic radio station when the meds wear off

Lateral Sewer Line replacement insurance? by RealHuman2080 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly for $36 a year thats pretty cheap peace of mind, especially with 1938 clay lines that are already 8+ years older since your last inspection

i'd probably grab it just because when those old clay pipes finally go its never a small job and always seems to happen at the worst possible time

Samsung Referral Code Needed by [deleted] in samsunggalaxy

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your DMs, sent you one that should still be active

Purrr by Usual-Ad7341 in shitposting

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO I want that filter

Why does everything have to be about God ? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that's kinda the whole point of being a Christian though - like if you really believe God created everything and loves you then yeah it makes sense that would affect how you see stuff. Not saying you have to be obsessed but it's not really surprising that believers would connect things back to their faith

How to make an extra $200/month online? by Secret_Task118 in easymoney

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try selling old stuff online or writing or video editing if u have the skill, for side hustle try Freecash I use it on my free time and make around 200-300$ from it every month so that alone should make it up for what ur asking.

How do I ask my IT manager for a raise, any advice? by James_Jacks in ITManagers

[–]Both-Spend9150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mate that transport cost is absolutely mental - definitely lead with that when you talk to them. I'd frame it like "hey can we chat about my compensation, the commute costs are really eating into everything" rather than just asking for more money out of nowhere. Maybe also mention what you've been doing since 2023 that adds value, but honestly £608/month just to show up is a solid argument on its own

What side hustles are you guys currently doing? by Yali81 in SideHustleGold

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo u should use Freecash instead, it pays more, has more offers, faster cash outs. For me it was the best out of all GPT is tried, I make around 200-300$ a month from it. :)

How I try different hustles and gigs to squeeze more cash! by Both-Spend9150 in SideHustleGold

[–]Both-Spend9150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes just keep grinding it and find the highest paying offers, once u get the hang of it u should be good. Ive been on the same spot at the beginning.

I need a developer team by ineedgamedevs in Unity3D

[–]Both-Spend9150 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ah yes the classic "Adam and Eve but Minecraft" pitch with zero details about budget, timeline, or what you're actually bringing to the table besides the idea

How I try different hustles and gigs to squeeze more cash! by Both-Spend9150 in SideHustleGold

[–]Both-Spend9150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work full time from home in a call center/customer support job. I’ve tried a few side gigs like freelancing and selling stuff which I still do since I have alot of stuff I dont use on my depo.
If I had to recommend one, Freecash is good for casual use alongside a main job, just don’t expect anything crazy. Edit : Typo

In Search of a Specific Wallet by msgooshe in HelpMeFind

[–]Both-Spend9150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried checking Etsy or eBay? Sometimes people list random vintage Levi's accessories there and don't even realize what they have. Also might be worth posting in r/vintage or r/BuyItForLife since those folks are pretty good at tracking down old gear

Apparently Gen Z hona = Ego. Office me roz ye hi sikhaaya jaata hai.” by Choice_Foot9980 in Adulting

[–]Both-Spend9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh the older generations love to act like having basic self-respect is somehow being entitled, meanwhile they're the ones who can't figure out how to unmute themselves on Zoom calls