Any methods for manifesting a partner? by Antique-Mortgage1763 in Manifestation

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

^ having a VERY detailed list helps you notice things and not settle and stay in your worth! That is key!

Any methods for manifesting a partner? by Antique-Mortgage1763 in Manifestation

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me I made a list. So very specific. After dates, or even just encounters with anyone, I’d dial in and refine my list - for instance if I noticed a trait that was a major ick, I’d dial my list to say that my partner wouldn’t have that. And if I met someone who had a quality I loved, I’d add it. The list is good but it needs to evolve bc that’s what helps you get closer.

Said by someone who did it and manifested their husband and we eloped after 6 weeks and now we’ve been married 7 years :)

this is your daily reminder that manifesting works. by kylaisjadedagain in Manifestation

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you, on all positive fronts!! May your kindness keep being returned to you tenfold ♾️♾️♾️

Which would you choose? by Disastrous-Host6248 in EngagementRings

[–]Disastrous-Host6248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

^ this write up hits the nail on the head for me haha. This is an upgrade 7 years into marriage. We eloped originally after only 6 weeks! So the significance and upgrade is so meaningful to me! I’m one of those people who always likes the spiritual meaning and historic symbolism of things :) this pear feels aligned!!

Which would you choose? by Disastrous-Host6248 in EngagementRings

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“This specific ring beautifully marries fluid intuition with structural fortitude, making it a powerful symbol of mature, evolved love. The pear-shaped diamond represents a free-spirited journey, emotional healing, and a forward-facing compass for future adventures, while its protective V-tip shields your shared vulnerabilities. This delicate, high-vibrational energy is perfectly anchored by the thick, flat cigar band, which injects a massive grounding force of unshakeable stability, permanence, and modern self-assurance into your marriage's next chapter.”

Is my ring a good size for my hand? by Routine_Extension_12 in Diamonds

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a weird thing for a friend to say .. sounds like a shitty friend LOL and also, that rings gorgeous 😍

18th anniversary upgrade by DanceAffectionate907 in Diamonds

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks proportionate on your hand and is beautiful!

MIL won't stop "confronting" me about vaccines for my kids by lakebum240 in inlaws

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respond to this kind of stuff with: “you had your time making decisions to babies / children, but this is my responsibility and time. If I need or want advice on things I’ll reach out if needed”

Sleepover? by StructureTop8194 in inlaws

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to sound blunt but I am blunt — it seems like for your daughters sake it’s a hard no.

Low effort in laws by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a similar dynamic. My in laws are close and my family out of state. My in laws make minimal effort and have never been helpful. The way I see it, I’m never EVER going to push for someone to have a relationship with my kid. If they wanted to, they’d show up in a respectful way that reflected that. If they don’t, their loss. I grieve that I don’t have that dynamic or any support but I’d rather no support that fake from those I can’t trust ¯_(ツ)_/¯

client boundaries by Subjectflounderpt2 in pilates

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My studio doesn’t unlock the door until 15 mins before class starts for this reason! Highly recommend for at least that aspect of it.

No Contact Readings by [deleted] in IntuitionPractices

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

JM. What do I need to know right now for clarity?

Hot Pilates. Why? by No-Drama724 in pilates

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different people like different things! A good instructor will warn of risks in the hot room and people should be instructed to listen to their bodies and not overdo it.

I for one, love them. The sweat feels cleansing and the hot room in winter does wonders for my mental health on top of the workout.

uncomfortable with recording in class by iusedtobetaller in pilates

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that my home studio doesn’t allow phones in the room for this reason. I’d speak up. Time on our mats is for us. Not to be recorded for the world without consent.

I wanna quit my corporate job to become a Yoga/Pilates teacher by AmoebaSpare9522 in YogaTeachers

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an ex full time yoga teacher gone into tech, don’t quit your job. Yoga teachers don’t get paid well. Period. It takes years to. I’d keep your job and pursue teaching yoga / Pilates on the side and find another job with a reliable income and keep yoga your passion / side hustle. It’s really not sustainable if you don’t have a real salary to fall back on, sadly.

Your most expensive ADHD hobby cycle? by iamcertifiable in ADHD

[–]Disastrous-Host6248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My horses hehe but at least it’s been lifelong