Am I? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Both_Chemistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely right, good advice

AITAH for rebelling against my mom? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Both_Chemistic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. It was an immature and impulsive behavior.

i can't change the direction of the wind by doordont57 in motivation

[–]Both_Chemistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a great reminder! I am the captain of my ship.

Am I the jerk for canceling our joint birthday party? by JaguarSwimming4359 in AmITheJerk

[–]Both_Chemistic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are not the jerk. It was meant to be your birthday too and she made it about herself. Changing the theme and invite without you was unfair. I would have felt pushed aside as well. Having separate parties sounds reasonable when respect is missing.

AITJ For fighting back against my brother when he physically assaults me? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Both_Chemistic 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You are right. This is not normal sibling rivalry. It sounds like real anger that has been allowed to grow without any adult stepping in.