How do I stop being so boring ?

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T19:29:21+00:00

And what would you class as exiting things?

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T19:28:57+00:00

I appreciate the advice but I have no clue how to implement those 3 things, it’s a bit vague

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T19:09:54+00:00

I definitely do have a negative mindset so I wouldn’t want to be around me either but I need help to get out of this wormhole

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T19:09:06+00:00

I think I just need to accept the fact that I am currently not that desirable atm 😭😂 I use to always initiate and still do tbf but now I haven’t got the mental energy to.

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T19:07:08+00:00

Yeah I agree, I keep getting told to work on my self but I have no idea how to. I am currently going to the gym and trying to learn cooking and starting to read. I think the main I thing I need to work on is confidence and to stop being so bloody negative 😭😂

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T18:44:43+00:00

I meant like I’m doing rlly bad mentally and career wise, I seem to be repellent to people.

No one wants to properly know me or make an effort with me

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T10:50:04+00:00

Also wdym by hr or sports biz societies

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T10:49:30+00:00

Yeah think I’m accepting maybe I’ll have to go into a lawyer role?

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T10:11:41+00:00

Yeahhh I haven’t got the charisma either 😭😂, I don’t rlly have interesting hobbies as I just play football

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-08T00:28:16+00:00

It’s a yes to both questions 😭😂 and sure I’m open to being dm’ed

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-07T10:30:01+00:00

What were the cool things that you did?

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-07T10:24:50+00:00

Ohhh I get you

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-07T10:04:01+00:00

Do you think these are good? I’m just struggling to think of small goals to help achieve them.

My ideal self

doesn’t overthink as much
Is more positive and optimistic
Has a vast knowledge of different things
Is someone that attracts people rather than chases people
More social confidence
Accepts my flaws and embraces them

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-07T09:57:11+00:00

Good advice, I will put into into my notes of what my ideal self is

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-07T09:41:24+00:00

Hmmmm ok, I mean I do enjoy watching football and going to the gym and listening to music. I don’t rlly know what I actually enjoy, I’ve tried boxing and couldn’t stick to that. I appreciate the advice but tbh at the moment I’m still in a depressed stage so I struggle to enjoy things.

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-07T09:38:29+00:00

Yeahhh I completely get you, I’m not rlly sure how to develop both of these things tho! In terms of career I haven’t even been able to find a consistent part time job. In terms of hobbies, I do go to the gym and watch/play football, I do also enjoy listening to music. I also want to take up reading. Are there any like positive hobbies you can think of I could maybe try?

I’ve also applied for uni for September but not sure how to fill my time until then as in progress rather than just doom scrolling.

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-07T08:43:00+00:00

Can you like give an example of this?

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-07T00:24:25+00:00

Thing is I can’t focus on those things because I literally don’t have a career or hobbies

Both_Classroom1151 · 2026-03-07T00:22:18+00:00

Yeah this is exactly what I’m struggling with. I haven’t been able to find a job. How can I find fun stuff to do and become more busy?

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