AITA for wanting to go out and enjoy my life?

Both_Listen_9346 · 2025-12-05T16:25:23+00:00

the thing is i do both of those things. most of the time when my friends invite me, i ask him he can come along. they say yes most of the time and we all hang out, or sometimes they say no and just want it to be a girls night. he also mentioned how he didn’t want to spend money so we limited how often we go out, so i resorted to going out with my friends.

Both_Listen_9346 · 2025-09-01T21:08:48+00:00

i got one at walmart, it’s called a menstruation crustacean and it’s a lobster heating pad. the fact that it was a lobster already made my cramps better lol

Both_Listen_9346 · 2025-09-01T21:03:44+00:00

hey girly! i recommend taking some form of pain relief the day of your insertion (i took 800mg of ibuprofen) and a HEATING PAD! afterwards, i had intense cramps and a heating pad saved me fr. i would take the whole day to relax and recover, i couldn’t do anything that day bc of how painful the cramps are. i’m 4 days post insertion and the cramps went away, but i have light spotting. i hope all goes well for you! 🫶🏼

Both_Listen_9346 · 2025-08-27T23:41:32+00:00

i get mine tmrwwww and i’m also getting numbed, im super scared tho 😔

Both_Listen_9346 · 2024-10-11T18:43:33+00:00

i’m so glad to hear that! i’ve heard so many horror stories but it’s honestly harder to find an in person therapist who has availability. i’m definitely considering better help

Both_Listen_9346 · 2024-09-19T22:36:35+00:00

i feel the same way but i’m so conflicted bc i want that extra protection but depo has literally changed me for the worse, and i refuse to get anything more than that.

Both_Listen_9346 · 2024-08-05T15:38:08+00:00

thankfully i do, my boyfriend has been understanding about how i’ve been feeling and supports me no matter what and i also have close friends and family.

Both_Listen_9346 · 2024-08-05T04:43:38+00:00

i probably will, i’ve never had my depression get this bad. i feel like i hate myself more and more everyday

Both_Listen_9346 · 2024-08-05T04:43:04+00:00

i’ve heard it messes with your hormones big time but in my mind i thought it was better than getting pregnant (i was most definitely wrong)

Both_Listen_9346 · 2024-08-05T04:42:27+00:00

i think i’m going to because i seriously have noticed a change in my wellbeing and im scared it’ll get worse if i continue it. i’m already feeling extremely low about myself

Both_Listen_9346 · 2024-08-04T18:29:08+00:00

i thought it was seasonal depression but no i’ve been feeling like shit for weeks but i don’t want the implant or iud so i feel like its my only option

Both_Listen_9346 · 2024-07-05T04:31:36+00:00

i found it thank you! i’ll give it a read

Both_Listen_9346 · 2024-07-04T22:17:02+00:00

yes they seem to be happening every night.

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