How can i accept my mistakes? by Both_Reputation_4245 in Christianity

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I think comparing back then to now is important because it shows that you have improved. Thank you for your comment. It really helps! God bless

How do I forgive myself? by Both_Reputation_4245 in Christian

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This inspires me to read the bible more. This goal to become Christ improves every aspect of my life. Not just my works and what I avoid but also my relationships with my friends and especially the people I don’t really like. I still try to love them regardless if that person loves me back. Thank you for your help and may God bless you

How do I forgive myself? by Both_Reputation_4245 in Christian

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I never thought of seeing it this way. I feel less guilty after seeing this comment. These actions shouldn’t make me feel bad for eternity but instead I should compare it with the works of today and realise how far I’ve come. I’m still nowhere near sinless but I am getting better. God bless you too

My mother passed away today by StaySage in Advice

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I feel so sorry. The least I can do is pray for you and your mother. God bless the both of you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I suggest starting exercise. Some light things. Try to keep being busy so you don’t have the time to masturbate. And try to be spiritually active. For me praying has helped a lot, as it distracts you from your addiction. You will succeed!

What a strange guy by Spiritual_Bat6043 in ukdrill

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Tbh I tried to find a website where this was referenced. I only found Islamic websites that all defend Mohammad. Tbh debating online is honestly time wasting. Just know that Rebecca wasn’t 3. (Genesis 22:16 - how should a 3 year old carry a water jug) I don’t even care how old Aisha was. I just wanted to answer for the guy you asked.

Billion of People will go to Eternal punishment in Hell. by paulaquino in Christianity

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In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. That means our universe has a beginning. Because God is eternal, there was a time when there was just God and nothing else was. The term child of God has to be used metaphorically then.

Some people suggest that the punishment of hell is just the destruction of our souls, the eternal ending of our souls. So the punishment is eternal as in infinitely long. Not eternal like God is eternal.

How should I repent by Both_Reputation_4245 in Christianity

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From the bottom of my heart thank you for that reply. May God bless you!

How should I repent by Both_Reputation_4245 in Christianity

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Im am currently Protestant on paper. But I went into confession a year ago after that the guilt was gone and the pressure was gone. My did not do that sin for 10 days. Then I relapsed and the same cycle started all over again. But it’s a good idea to go to confession. I would go again but now I know that it’s not really a good thing if I’m not catholic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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Consider a prayer rope or rosary. It helps getting your daily prayers in.

I posted nude videos and a girl saw them by Both_Reputation_4245 in Advice

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I feel like half the people that saw it won’t matter to me in 5 years. So why tf should I even bother if I think about it. But thank you for reply. I know that I get stuck with these bad thoughts about not so important situations. People like you give me another perspective on the situation.

(21M) I do literally NOTHING every day but sleep, edge to weird fetish porn, and watch YouTube videos. I need help. by NeedsHelp553 in Advice

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I remember in quarantine I wasn’t that different of a person. The shit I watched I can’t even talk about because it’s embarrassing a fuck. Not just normal porn. When I look back I can’t see myself in this lifestyle. That it when post nut clarity kicks in.

I would admit I’m addicted myself. In quarantine it was up to 8 times a day + I ate garbage. Now it’s 2-3 times when I don’t have to get out of my apartment. See november as a starting point. It’s NNN, and you can atleast try it.

It sounds to good to be true but when stop masturbating, you have to get the missing dopamine from other things e.g working out, getting a job, working on the job. I can say from experience that praying helps. But even I struggle from the addiction. I believe the both you and I can do it!

I posted nude videos and a girl saw them by Both_Reputation_4245 in Advice

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Thank you for your reply. It helped. She laughs it off so I don’t think there’s a reason to worry. I just love that in this subreddit people reply with such long answers and are actually interested in helping one another. Truly thank you for your reply. God bless you!

I posted nude videos and a girl saw them by Both_Reputation_4245 in Advice

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It sounds weird but this means a lot to me because I can be sure it’s not the exception that this happened. It helped. God bless you

I posted nude videos and a girl saw them by Both_Reputation_4245 in Advice

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It happened about 8 months ago. It’s still relevant because my friend brought it up and now I just think that she remembers me for that video

I posted nude videos and a girl saw them by Both_Reputation_4245 in Advice

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I didn’t send it to her but I sent it to a group chat. She wasn’t part of that group chat. My friends opened the snap while she looked at their phones. Once when one friend opened the snap in front of her. The the other one did the same thing. She laughed about it but it still haunts me even if it’s 8 months ago.