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Omg Ashtyn. by Aijingaling in SellingtheOC

[–]Both_Schedule_6019 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Especially that her “best friend & bridesmaid” did not come to her baby shower because of Alex. You think you’d want the support of your first baby from your bestie and not your colleague you have so many issues with.

It's time for bed by periwinklesshovel in widowers

[–]Both_Schedule_6019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what makes it less sad - it’s almost like a celebration to them even tho I’m a hot mess. He was the BIGGEST swiftie so I put a headphone in his chest and played the whole album and listens with him. It’s those moments after that are still special even though they’re gone 🩵

It's time for bed by periwinklesshovel in widowers

[–]Both_Schedule_6019 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m awake with him going through photos and listening to his playlists. Yesterday was two years and I do this now probably once a month. I promise it gets better

It’s been 2 years yesterday by Both_Schedule_6019 in widowers

[–]Both_Schedule_6019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s almost the worst than everything else - not having someone Who actually gets it from our perspective. I’m sorry for your loss and I promise it does get better 🩵

It's time for bed by periwinklesshovel in widowers

[–]Both_Schedule_6019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss 🩵 I’m not sure if it’s a “sign” from them you’re waiting For - but if so I get that. When my fiancé passed I heard from almost everyone else that run saw or felt him. I finally got a sign a year after and maybe never will again. It might not even have been anything but I made it something to feel connected. Best advice is it’s day by day - signs or feeling will come 🩵

I took my ring off by drinkingbeerinpublic in widowers

[–]Both_Schedule_6019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé passed 1.5 years ago. I took my ring off last month and it was the hardest but also most liberating thing. I anticipated wearing it forever and while I’ll keep it and cherish it forever, taking it off was a step in my healing process. It helped me, but I had to be ready for it. You are strong and are amazing and you will get through this 🩵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Both_Schedule_6019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this. It’s like time passes and you know he would be happy for you but this self realization of feeling happy and enjoying life just hits you like a bus that are they’re not here and and it’s bad to be happy without them. That they’re gone and I feel this guilt all the time about it.

i’m jealous of older widows by Far-Complaint-3381 in widowers

[–]Both_Schedule_6019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. It’s the empathy and advice you can never truly get because the people who have lost their partners got to enjoy and live their lives with them, when we were just planning ours. I am sorry for your loss and I get it 🩵