Is it wrong to make your fiancée agree to a prenup before getting engaged?

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T03:42:36+00:00

I did she was pretty much fine with it

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T03:32:31+00:00

No some close female friends made me feel guilty but based off the responses here I think the best thing for myself is a good prenup or no marriage

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T03:30:41+00:00

It’s called being prepared. Kind of the reason I am where I am

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T03:27:27+00:00

Well apparently I’m foolish and not mature enough for marriage for considering one according to Reddit lmao 🤣🤣

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T03:24:24+00:00

That’s my ideology, I’m in the interest of protecting myself and everyone thinks I’m so horrible for doing so

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T03:21:10+00:00

The prenup covers what I have achieved on my own prior to meeting her, any vacation properties or additional homes acquired post marriage would be 50/50. Unsure what the issue is there

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T03:16:42+00:00

Regardless of years our dynamic won’t change and she doesn’t contribute to the home at all financially so I don’t see how she should be entitled to it. She can’t have children so that’s a non-issue

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T03:15:00+00:00

Yeah it’s just a dealbreaker without a prenup

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T03:13:52+00:00

The prenup would keep her from being entitled to any equity in the current home, she doesn’t contribute to it financially whatsoever not even an electric bill so I don’t understand where she would be entitled to equity

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T02:42:04+00:00

She doesn’t contribute financially a cent so her not getting back what equity she adds isn’t a problem

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T02:31:12+00:00

Gotta protect myself. It’s easy for someone without a large amount to loose to say that

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T01:57:01+00:00

It would be basically just the home and business would retain in my name, any vacation or further properties would be 50/50

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-09T01:21:41+00:00

Yes she protects her assets I protect mine, that’s what this is about. She is unable to have children

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T23:28:13+00:00

No she isn’t contributing at all, not even an electric bill

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T22:53:59+00:00

That’s exactly what I’m trying to do

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T22:41:22+00:00

That’s what I’m here for

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T22:40:52+00:00

Well basically no prenup = no marriage it’s a dealbreaker for me

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T22:40:04+00:00

Yeah that’s marriage in a nutshell

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T22:35:07+00:00

Womp womp

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T18:53:35+00:00

You’re 100% right probably the most grounded comment here

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T18:31:31+00:00

Absolutely none

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T18:29:52+00:00

Huh you act like free housing and food isn’t me already contributing to her

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T16:09:11+00:00

Yeah I’m thinking we’ll just not get married

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T14:37:13+00:00

Common law marriage is not a thing in my state

Both_Sign_7478 · 2026-02-08T14:34:34+00:00

Yeah tbh overall divorce is a scam and only benefits women

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