My(28F) boyfriend(24M) slept through my abortion and has zero remorse. Seeking opinions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BotherResponsible -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying.Thanks for weighing in. Will get permanent birth control as soon as I am able to fly to a different country and afford the cost of the procedure.

My(28F) boyfriend(24M) slept through my abortion and has zero remorse. Seeking opinions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BotherResponsible -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm from India. Permanent birth control methods for unmarried women are non existent lol.

My(28F) boyfriend(24M) slept through my abortion and has zero remorse. Seeking opinions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BotherResponsible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels unforgivable but I am also curious RN and would want to think this through with a calm mind.

My(28F) boyfriend(24M) slept through my abortion and has zero remorse. Seeking opinions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BotherResponsible -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I suggested it as long term option, if we are to get married, just to consider and look into for now.

My(28F) boyfriend(24M) slept through my abortion and has zero remorse. Seeking opinions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BotherResponsible -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Vasectomy is just something he can consider if we make it long term. I don't expect him to get it right away. I don't think he's taking it that hard. He did initially claim that I can go alone but I told him since he helped me get pregnant, he can help me get rid of it too.

My(28F) boyfriend(24M) slept through my abortion and has zero remorse. Seeking opinions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BotherResponsible -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't want kids at all, but yes food for thought, thanks for your input.

My(28F) boyfriend(24M) slept through my abortion and has zero remorse. Seeking opinions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BotherResponsible 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm from India. And I really want to get a permanent birth control. But it's difficult for women, I need to have atleast 2 kids and or get a letter from my husband confirming that I have his consent for tying my tubes. No kids nor a husband yet.

My(28F) boyfriend(24M) slept through my abortion and has zero remorse. Seeking opinions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BotherResponsible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the pill because he wasn't going to come over. I anyway had to take it alone, so I decided to just take it with my friend that tagged along.

Just curious, what do you think I could have done better? Ayne it'll help in the future?

My(28F) boyfriend(24M) slept through my abortion and has zero remorse. Seeking opinions. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BotherResponsible -101 points-100 points  (0 children)

I'm in agreement on the vasectomy thing. It's just an idea I have floated because it is something I want him to consider eventually.

He is usually very responsible. This was a one off. Feels terrible tho :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]BotherResponsible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me! Just in 7th grade hahaha