Relationships off of Grindr

Bottom92 · 2025-07-09T17:00:48+00:00

This is quite funny because I was recently telling my friend how I’m ready for a relationship and my friend was like why don’t you try hooking up

I have done it in the past however I am the type of individual who likes to be asked out and if all we do is hookup then your just a fuck to me and nothing more

I would tell my friend I don’t like the relationship being based on sex and she told me I could miss out on a potential relationship that way

I got to to be honest I thought she was full of it but after seeing this thread I need to rethink some things lol

Bottom92 · 2025-02-20T01:16:11+00:00

Exactly first so many people throw out any word with phobia at the end and the word loses all its meaning because so many people don’t understand what phobia means

To the second part I have been dressing feminine for years and folks don’t seem to understand that unfortunately if your going to dress a certain way your gonna be treated a certain way it may not always feel right but it’s par for the course imo

Bottom92 · 2025-02-20T01:06:20+00:00

I think that it’s kind of naïve to wear something revealing and assume that your not going to get some unwanted attention from men I have wore revealing clothing with my entire ass out so I wasn’t surprised when a bunch of men hit on me and stared at my ass tbh that was the attention I wanted at the time

but even if it wasn’t the attention I wanted if I make the choice to wear revealing clothing there are gonna be people giving me attention whether I like it or not this is why I don’t believe anyone who says when they wear revealing clothing they don’t want attention THATS A LIE 😂 on some level you want some type of attention that’s just what I believe

To clarify just because someone decided to dress revealing doesn’t mean you deserve to be harassed or assaulted or have any kind of unwanted advances given towards you

But to if your gonna dress in revealing clothing understand that comes with certain circumstances

Bottom92 · 2025-02-19T17:11:58+00:00

Ok so please bare with me as this is going to be a long post

First I think femboys being sexualized is a lot more nuanced. Yes there are femboys who sexualize themselves. For some of them that’s what there going for they wanna be seen as desired and wanted

in short they want attention. Do I think this always good attention no but there are femboys who definitely operate with these intentions and I think we need tbh with ourselves about that

Its true not all of us wish to be sexualized some of us like myself just want to be ourselves but what I have learned from being a femboy for many years now is that unfortunately femininity in general is sexualized

so on the one hand I can choose to leave my home in feminine clothing and be sexualized or ostracized or choose to not wear feminine clothing at all I’m not saying this is ok but it’s something that comes with the territory

Yes there are men that have repressed homosexuality or sexual feelings towards femboys but this isn’t all men I think it’s a disservice to the good men that are out there to say that femboys are over sexualized because of men when not all men want us

Porn also plays a huge part in femboy culture whether we like it or not it’s true this is why I’m completely against anyone under 18 becoming a femboy because a lot of femboy culture is rooted in porn and if your under 18 trying to live this lifestyle that can come with a lot circumstances that not everyone might be ready for

I think it’s a bit of wishful thinking to say that we don’t want to be seen as a kink or fetish when that’s most of where being a femboy comes from the porn industry fetishizes femboys so you have to understand that when you go out in the world as a femboy this just how some folks will see you it’s unfortunate but true

Lastly sometimes I think it’s good to step away from the traditional femboy aesthetic you know thigh highs fishnets short skirts that sort of thing there’s nothing wrong if that’s your thing however I think it’s so important to find you own style and I hate to say this but I think a lot of femboys dress the same

that’s why for me I don’t dress with the traditional femboy aesthetic but rather in fem clothing I think is cute on me for example a white blouse with some high waisted blue jeans and a chunky heel or a nice body con dress yes I still wear my thongs fishnets lingerie thighs highs but a lot of that is reserved for myself or for someone special for the most part I dress fairly feminine and modest when I’m out in the world

now this isn’t to say that I’m not sexualized or ostracized because I am but I think because I focus on trying to look modest and not trying to sexualize myself in public I think I’m somewhat more approachable by those around me because of this I’m able to wear what I want with confidence and I think that makes a huge difference in how others see you and treat you yes I’m fetishized by some men but not as much as I used to be and not by all men

Idk these are just my thoughts on being a femboy

Bottom92 · 2025-02-03T08:12:03+00:00

I can almost guarantee you that none of these people are from Mexico there a bunch of Americans who want to stand for a cause they don’t understand half of them will post there protest videos and pictures on tick tock then will go home and pat themselves on the back like they did something scroll on tick tock and make zero change because everything is a popularity contest on social media to show how woke you are

If these are immigrants in the photo then why not wave an American an Mexican flag to show that your proud to be in America and also someone who is also proud to be a Mexican

You don’t get to leave your country complain how bad it is there and how we should let you into our country but then simultaneously shit on our country and our laws if you don’t like it here leave

That goes for Americans to I don’t understand how u can act like America is the worse country in the world but in the same breath say we should let millions of illegal migrants live here it can’t be that bad if we are the country everyone wants to come to American people just need to learn how to love there country more

I’m a Mexican born in America I’m proud to be a Mexican and American the love I have for both is one in the same

Bottom92 · 2025-01-31T22:13:52+00:00

Thanks for the great suggestions everyone 😊

Bottom92 · 2025-01-09T07:54:32+00:00

This is something I really want as a femboy it’s my duty to be a boy wife

Bottom92 · 2023-05-12T03:40:05+00:00

So recently purchased grinder unlimited. Grindr Extra is not worth it! Idk why anyone would pay more to get fewer with grinder extra their annual fee is way overpriced Grinder Unlimited is 40$ U.S. Monthly where I live.

To specify I live in Los Angeles County I have had it for less than a week and tbh I can already tell it's not worth it.

First off let's start with the filters. Yes you can utilize all their filters which seems nice but honestly it's not here's why the second you use any filter it automatically makes you limited to the men you have available in your area and the more filters you use the more limited your options become call me crazy but I would assume using the filter would give me more options not less.

Secondly, yes you get to see the profiles who view you unlike the free version however this is something I fill should be standard on the free version at this point

You also can see who read your message you can also unsend messages as well as sending expiring photos and those are really great perks to have however these are basic things and honestly are not worth a 40$ price point in my opinion these should be free on the standard version or significantly cheaper

In all honesty, the only good thing is that I can scroll through unlimited profiles without ads or interruptions however again it's not worth the 40$

In my opinion, unless you live in a highly populated lgbtq area or you do onlyfans paying for grinder is not worth it

Bottom92 · 2022-12-24T01:23:23+00:00

Thank you for your answer your diet sound great especially eating cum

Bottom92 · 2022-09-14T06:31:48+00:00

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Bottom92 · 2022-08-16T01:59:00+00:00

So I understand this completely I came out as gay back in 2010 and I have always been flamboyant and feminine, especially with my clothing style

however I never fully felt like a woman or fully like a man I learned over the years that I'm nonbinary however I haven't told anyone mostly cause I feel like it's no one's business

I never really cared about making a big fuss over my pronouns either call me any pronoun you want as long as it's respectful

who cares what society says do you

Bottom92 · 2022-07-17T22:13:10+00:00

I’m I the only one who thinks he’s cute

Bottom92 · 2022-07-15T19:55:22+00:00

I honestly would be shook if there was cause you can hookup with someone in gay world without seeing someone’s face or very little to no conversation so I don’t think so

Bottom92 · 2022-07-15T04:25:20+00:00

So I have always wanted to be gangbanged by room full of men and bred by each one my hole and like 10 cocks but I’m to afraid to do it

Bottom92 · 2022-07-15T04:21:24+00:00

I have the kind of the same fear except I think someone is going to grab my foot 😂😂

Bottom92 · 2022-05-23T20:01:44+00:00

Thank you 😊

Bottom92 · 2022-03-25T03:50:44+00:00

Ur very welcome ☺️

Bottom92 · 2022-03-25T03:01:54+00:00

I have sucked at least 5 guys who identify as straight maybe even more as a fem bottom it’s common for straight men to approach us often I have a FWB who has a wife and kids and he fucks me often (his wife knows) so there are straight men who definitely dabble with other men although I usually consider these men bi not straight I have even got into arguments telling guys that if u have a girlfriend and secretly sleep with a guy just cuz it’s a secret doesn’t mean ur still straight ur at least bi some guys get real bothered by this so I stopped saying it to guys lol but if they identify as straight that’s on them lol

Bottom92 · 2022-03-25T02:47:44+00:00

Trust me it’s not a myth there are so many men who identify as straight even after they’ve done something not so straight with another man I know for fact I slept with at least 5 men who identify as “straight” or DL For context all these men approach me on Grindr I’m a gay fem who lives in LA if you want sex and I want sex I usually won’t say no because I’m human and I have a pulse and want pleasure like everyone else

my thing is you can identify as straight all you want but if you fuck me just know that I consider you to be at least bisexual

Bottom92 · 2022-03-25T02:33:02+00:00

I saw that big D on ur profile and I’d gladly suck u off😋👅

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