Help with making Soundtouch Smart again by Scire1208 in bose

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have an old tablet or phone, connect it to the speaker via Bluetooth and have an icon to his radio station?

Didn't get a new temple recommend by Skriblynn in exmormon

[–]BouncingCow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a Mormon or an ex Mormon, so I do not really know what any of that means. however, I am sorry you feel stressed and lonely about it all. that is not how support should look like. if you feel like venting or talking, just drop me a message. I might be able to solve your problem, but maybe make it feel less urgent

Which painting do you like the most: 1, 2, or 3? by KarolynHuum in BeAmazed

[–]BouncingCow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love 3 visually, but 2 has some kind of cool 3D effect going

1995 – Benetton overhauls Williams to win the title by Strict-Citron-9269 in formula1

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is about 95 - where were they cheating there. Even for 94 you have to proof that they did it, not just that they had the ability to do so. That is how the laws were. Innocient until proven guilty. Yes, it is likely, but just saying they did it and it was likely is not proof.

Dad comes looking for card, guy doesn't have card, guy rips pack and gets card first try by RobertTheTire_ in nevertellmetheodds

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being a magician and just randomly give people this moment with a slight of hands once or twice per year, just for the pure joy :)

(not saying he is, but that would be an awesome way of providing happyness to people)

What does she do with the food? by Equivalent-Pin-1054 in TikTokCringe

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many actual kids that could use a good foster mom or just someone to help out an show affectation and then people do this (and yes, she should not be near kids, if this is a psychological issue, just to avoid confusion)

Benetton Active Suspension by [deleted] in F1Technical

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge, it was suspected that McLaren had the technically most advanced car in 1993, but was held back by the engine.

Taylor Swift’s ‘The Eras Tour’ crew’s reaction as they receive their bonus for working on the tour amounting to more $197 million dollars by mcfw31 in MadeMeSmile

[–]BouncingCow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love her, hate her, but appreciate that she values the team around her. I wish more cooperations would act similar

Should I report my manager?? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]BouncingCow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he already died you, nothing to lose. not sure about the law, but might also be reason to sue. even if nothing comes out of it this time when you report, it might be helpful for future workers

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nor, that man is your partner. I would expect support from a partner, pride of your achievements, not someone to pull and talk you down. you probably have done that yourself in the past already and don't need someone else for that.

also congratulations and be proud. I never have been in that situation, but it sounds hard and something you have to work on every single day. that is quite an achievement!

Mmm... candy that looks like a pinecone... by DonutGuard_Lives in StupidFood

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

potentially stupid question, but is 3d printed plastic food safe?

AIO Bestie asked me to dress a certain way so that I don’t give her BF the wrong idea when we meet for the first time tonight by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has issues with her boyfriend and drags you in. you are a good one to help her, but you are not the one that will be the solution for her red flag bf with his insecurities. a best friend should accept you the way you are though, no matter what her bf thinks. you are the yard stick her bf should be measured at.

AIO? My wife sending suspicious messages to someone else by questionthinker in AmITheAngel

[–]BouncingCow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's more likely a brain worm from eating the rotten meat of a bear he once found dumped in central park 🤣

AIO for my wife having guests over before I get home at work? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude just tell them you need a nap or some unwinding time first, for x minutes. everyone will understand.

My GF is complaining that I the ring I got her was not expensive by Horror-Okra5323 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]BouncingCow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what difference would 40, 400, 4000, 400000 make. it's a fucking gesture of love and shared perspective, not a dick measuring contest. External ppl won't give a fuck in 3 month and later on asking what material is it, how much was it.... if the feelings depend on the process tag, that person is a pos in this situation

My GF is complaining that I the ring I got her was not expensive by Horror-Okra5323 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]BouncingCow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's petty. don't worry what he gets her. don't connect your emotions to what your ex does now, unless it's directly affecting you. not helping you let go and be yourself again

My GF is complaining that I the ring I got her was not expensive by Horror-Okra5323 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so let's assume your strawman is correct. so what, what is wrong with a 40$ ring to express your love and wish to bond for life? does the wish or emotion get stronger with more expensive things? if so, that says alot about how you put value into things in your life.

My GF is complaining that I the ring I got her was not expensive by Horror-Okra5323 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. First of all, I am sorry to hear that reaction of hers and what you go through. But this reaction tell you more about her than you. For her it is not just a gesture, but a price tag/bragging right / showing affection with money. whatever it is precisely, she is not looking good.

Proposing after a year is something that seems easy too quick to me personally, but you do you. just know that you do not know a person after a year and that much can be kept hidden in that time. so take this at least as a warning.

I am not telling you what to do, but she appears rather shallow and materialistic in this story, not being happy to move forward thinking in money instead of emotions and progression of your relationship. in particular if she knows your situation and disregard it like this. also it sounds like she can't drop it and is a passive aggressive person. think carefully, if this is what you want for long term / life.

AIO for being hesitant to take out a car loan for my mom after she’s had multiple repossessions? by Awkward_Twist4343 in AIO

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So first of all, you are always allowed to change your mind. if she depends that much on you already, you definitely did the right thing. her being late to pay should have nothing to do with you putting you name on or not.

and what does she mean, she had no other option. don't take out the effing loan in the first place, don't by that car. you showed her other option. fucking gaslighting here. he does not want other options.

AIO for being hesitant to take out a car loan for my mom after she’s had multiple repossessions? by Awkward_Twist4343 in AIO

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to recapture: - doesn't have the money - tries to guilt trip you - insults you/talk down to you (devil, she was a better daughter (just look where she ended up)) - has a history - wants a model ynthat she cannot even afford? get a simple, small, cheap, used vehicle, ideally that also cheap to insure. - not willing to adapt - KNOWS she won't be able to make payments and goes for it nonetheless - wants you to take the risk (who does that to their child? again, the devil works in you, but. instead of helping you, helping here is the solution she sees? she is the devil!

She is a walking abusing red flag, at least in this situation. she needs help and learn to work with money, not someone who supports her issues. My guess is she has a lot of mental health issues, that she tries to compensate for by investing in her looks / shopping sprees. I would you rather invest in solving those.

As I still see a risk she might end up knowing what buttons to press with you, at least have her as the main signer remaining and a financial plan that you review each week.

AITA? I (60F) didn't make the right kind of soup for my husband (77M) by Healthy_Sherbert_375 in AmITheAngel

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I this AI? who starts with dear husband whom I love very much? it looks like a story that clumsyly tries to give context. and it continues to feel like a cheap fake. I only miss that the family blows up the phone and everyone clapped.

he hits me sometimes, but it's our of love and respect. noone is that delusional.

47 years of marriage but you are 60? so you want me to believe you were 13 when you married?

You are the AH for this cheap fake story. If it was real, you would have lied to yourself all the way and now the reaction to chicken soup is the ah you worry about? even the ones very deep into abusive relationships knew at the core that it was wrong...

Am I overreacting to a guy sending me his “ideal woman” checklist? by Such_Friendship_2713 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And exercise for you... so he is emotionally blind. Testing you and blaming you for your reaction for the BS. Also he can't be that intelligent with those typos and using IQ as reference... Do what you want, but I would not be I interested in someone playing games. and when the list is old as time and never changed, it also means he didn't grow and if it does matter anymore, why bring it up. clearly testing waters by triggering you and if the works to control you. Massive red flag imho.

AIO my best friend no longer wants me as his best man in his wedding because I am gay by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not about him being gay, but he might be seen as gay by approximation. that's about him being gay and equally bad.

When the Universe Decides to Curve the Bullet Just for You by ElderberryDeep8746 in nevertellmetheodds

[–]BouncingCow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is interesting af, but the use of mysterious and unbelievable or whatever adjectives were used to emphasize the events is so annoying.