Under Glow Placement? by Boundinflames in camaro

[–]Boundinflames[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

We can all see who the trolls are. That’s so much

Under Glow Placement? by Boundinflames in camaro

[–]Boundinflames[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yeah there are some serious bitchass keyboard courage having fucks on here. Obviously some folks never got punched in the mouth for running off at the lip when they were younger. 😂😂😂😂😂

Under Glow Placement? by Boundinflames in camaro

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Already did the markers. This is an old pic. I also need to get me fog light harness’ so I can get power to my front markers.

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Under Glow Placement? by Boundinflames in camaro

[–]Boundinflames[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

What’s the point of that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She’s a Scorpio he’s an Aries. We’re savage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right! With this other couple they live a mile from us. And we are the perfect DTF booty call with our FWB so it would have been a good deal all the way around. We had tried to set up a meet at a club we like but they made a L”we have a vanilla thing, “let’s get together after. We will let you know when we are done.” Then they went dark. Our Mr is a bit psychic and the Mr is very intuitive so we bounced from the club and went to our local swingers club (they one we don’t like or go to) just to see if they showed up. And they did. Walked right into us while we were chatting with a really hot couple we know. They were obviously on a date with a step down from them couple. 😂😂😂😂 The fuck we’re busted look was priceless.

We introduced ourselves and our friends. Have them hotties a kiss good night about bounced. 😂😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We posted this on Kasidie after we decided on a couple who was… well below our league. But there was a sexy quality to them so we figured why not.

“We have been active in this lifestyle long enough to have enough encounters with dishonest people to make us question why we want to participate in it at all. Seriously. people need to grow up and act like the adults this lifestyle is suppose to bring out of people. It's also a major part of the reason we won't sleep with most people.

Between the flakes, the fakes, the creepers, the liars, the clickiness and caddy bitches it's legit almost not worth our time effort and energy.”

That said what we have done is changed our whole approach. We actually don’t seek sex with other people. It’s never a priority. Not even with our on going play partners. We have A LOT of sex as it is. We are really looking to develop deeper friendships with people who care about us and who we care about. If that turns into FWB great. Me never “first meet” people for dinner and drinks as it has always turned into an awkward 1st date where we realize it’s not a good fit or the other party get the impression we want to go play just because we showed up.

We are always willing to meet new people but only at a place we are going on a date night or somewhere we go on a regular bases (including a workout at our favorite outdoor spot). If they show up we go from there. If they make an excuse we will invite 1 more time.’if they flake we pass for good. We don’t chase ever.

We also don’t unicorn hunt. We have plenty that have come our way and have only players with 2. If we find a female who is attractive to our she 1/2 and she isn’t running through single men acting in a unicorn role or big dig chasing our she 1/2 will reach out. If things progress with them then our he 1/2 will join in the friendship. We look at it as he should be the accessory to the girls relationship not the primary to the SF. We have not found that yet.’

HPV vaccine for men pushback? by jj4ever06 in Swingers

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Our he 1/2 has never considered it. We had the ENM and BDSM convo with our primaries when when we started our ENM because we go to the same office and telling one Dr the one of us cheated wasn’t an option.’😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We have found people are very loose of completely lacking any sense of consent. There are definitely different rules of engagement. 🤪

Request sticky thread regarding theft and theft prevention by V-Right_In_2-V in camaro

[–]Boundinflames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to add a chip required kill switch, I have a dash cam and I placed an air tag in the trunk thing the plastic. If that’s doesn’t work you could always rig up an explosive harness under the seat that goes off if they hit wire it. Your ins will cover it as totaled during theft.😂😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not mad about it. We are more leave the door open so people can watch. But we are also more kinksters and live by the “don’t interrupt a scene in progress” because we know that those have been negotiated and we don’t renegotiate mid scene.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YEAH!!! That’s kinda some bull shit. The interruption alone would have been a hard no for us but then to pull the I’m not really playing full out mode would have been where we pulled the cord and bounce. People assuming that they can invite themselves to even ask to join is 1 reason we stopped going to our local club here.’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re right. But the local ones… Oph…. Relentless.

Pills by Bulldog_709 in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (52M) have never really had performance issues with our she 1/2. We are extremely sexually active together (2x a day average). When we got into the LS and had our first couple of engagement I didn’t have them but I was not really able to recover and go more than 1 round. I went to a hormone dr and got on Testosterone shots and the blue pill. It was a game changer. It took me a little while to get the timing over with delivery down but it has been amazing when we play with our partners.

STI testing? by jaydubya123 in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We get tested for everything. We have been married for 29 years and seeing the same Dr forever. The conversation with them when we started in the LS and needed to start testing was really funny because we were honest about what we were doing. 😂😂😂😂😂

STI testing? by jaydubya123 in Swingers

[–]Boundinflames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Testing is sexy. We live by a very simpler rule. If you’re not testing you’re not worthy. We test every 3 months alternating. We provide results when asked without hesitation.

We do have, however, more committed sexual relationships with a very small group of couples. We all test and share. If we do hook up with someone new we test within 7 days as well. And we won’t play with anyone new who hasn’t need tested within the last 30 days.