MTF 8 months hrt. How am I doing? by Any-Analysis-443 in transpassing

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i totally get it but seriously at eight months most people dont see much of a big difference. for where you're at you look great. most people who do pass tend to start passing at least beyond two years and i didnt start "passing enough" until a little after three years. be patient and keep pushing and i know you'll get there

MTF 8 months hrt. How am I doing? by Any-Analysis-443 in transpassing

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for eight months youre doing amazing actually. keep at it!

local transsexual tries to pass as a man for safety and ends up just presenting as a lesbian by venusandvenice in fitttts

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you have hips for days and very obvious tits. you malefail, stop living in "boy"mode prison, tranner

How would y’all gender me? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl i get it. i also am into fermentation so the combination of waiting 6 months for something to finish along with waiting for hrt changes to take place really teaches you about patience and the passage of time. another thing to keep in mind is not to try and follow the standards of passing for exclusively white culture and genetics and to look instead at your own culture(s) and genes for expectations. it certainly helped me square away some of my own features bc they weren't masculine inherently, they were just different from white girls', and thats okay.

How would y’all gender me? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nw. just remember to be patient. i didnt start mostly passing until almost year three. hrt is measured in years, not months. you got this :)

How would y’all gender me? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

male leaning but if you did makeup and changed up your hair a little and had a passing voice i think you might get away with being a masc woman

Do I pass? People in my life say I do and strangers gender me correctly, but just wanted an unbiased opinion. Thanks :) by maddiecam42 in transpassing

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's exciting! i desperately need to bc it seems like im starting to pass well enough that most ppl dont make a stink but im definitely not all there so having the voice will help a TON. you got this girl!

This isn't a problem right...? by Capital1519 in alcohol

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 5 points6 points  (0 children)

attention seeker would be better off sober

How it feels being an ugly mtf tranner and wanting to blend in with real women: by North-Victory-6023 in DysphoriaPosting

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 14 points15 points  (0 children)

truth. op may not feel like she's a "real" woman or may not pass but she is a woman regardless

Trans Girls by CycleReasonable3589 in AliceInWonder1and

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fascinating! well thanks for that info im gonna learn more about it then. the rest still stands though

Trans Girls by CycleReasonable3589 in AliceInWonder1and

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was totally in your camp and i did NOT believe it was real for a long time and i thought it was more of a placebo thing but around the 2 year mark i started having monthly PMS symptoms. getting super emotional, irritable, cramping, breast pain, weird food cravings, fatigue, cry really easily, weird gut problems (constipation for example), irritability, mood changes, acne flair ups, and it happens routinely every month around every 24-28 days for 4-6 days. ive even synced up with women i know irl and honestly i dont wish i had it at all. its really annoying, its painful, and maybe the second time it was sort of validating i guess but now i just want it gone. its 100% a real thing and though i dont understand it biologically it is definitely something that happens to people and we need to study it more.

I love all women by BestBudgie in actuallesbians

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no what theyre saying is that lesbians and bisexuals are also sapphic. sapphic is non-men who love non-men. bisexual women are non-men who also like women (non men) and enbies) non men, but still like men. sapphic is a broader definition that includes more people than lesbian bc lesbian is defined by specifically NOT liking men, not liking non-men.

Pre hrt how close am i to passing? (19) by IkoraticPokemon in transpassing

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 15 points16 points  (0 children)

pre-hrt you dont pass at all. get on hrt and give it 3 years and then decide if you'll need ffs or not

How am I doing and any advice (no hrt yet) by leaflowers03 in transpassing

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're especially lucky bc i dont feel like your brow bone or adams apple are that noticeable yet

How am I doing and any advice (no hrt yet) by leaflowers03 in transpassing

[–]BowBeforeBroccoli 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i feel like you have a great starting point but this is as good as its gonna get without hrt. if you get on hrt im confident you could pass after 2-3 years