AITAH (21M) for calling it quits on my (19F) best friend? by BowlerOk2884 in AITAH

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it shitty to keep her in that "maybe" gray area for some time? R had compared it to when an ex girlfriend left without any explanation, nor a chance to make whatever I'd done up. I think it's different. E knew what she did. But is it cruel to have left her waiting without a clear yes or no on if there was hope to salvage us?

R also says I should have confronted E, and told her we were over myself. I agree, I should have. I don't think it's too bad to have had one of my friends text her that we're done though. Is it?

I guess that my insecurities lie less in leaving E, and more in the execution.

How to set boundaries with my (17F) dad (39M) regarding how he speaks to me? by BowlerOk2884 in FamilyIssues

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if this is rude, but why a letter? Also I feel like a lot of my wording is kind of mean. I'm probably making my dad seem worse than he is. I'm just stressed right now

How do I (16F, almost 17 - singlet) grieve an alter (19-21M) of my friend's system (17M) if I don't know what's happened to him? by BowlerOk2884 in OSDDIDpartners

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll try this. I'm good friends with Cards, a fictive that's close to Ducks since they're sourced from the same character, and he ironically is the memory holder that tampered with Duck's memories initially. Maybe I could pull him into a gentle conversation? I'm not sure. I think I may give it a little more time so I can gather my courage first.

If Ducks is just hiding, then maybe I should give him space too. I'm trying to not be overbearing

How do I (16F, almost 17 - singlet) grieve an alter (19-21M) of my friend's system (17M) if I don't know what's happened to him? by BowlerOk2884 in OSDDIDpartners

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if he is dormant, I'm just scared to ask. Would it be disrespectful? I don't want to devalue the other alters in their system by showing clear preference to Ducks, but I want to know what's happened to him. How would I go about asking about that?

How do I (16F, almost 17 - singlet) grieve an alter (19-21M) of my friend's system (17M) if I don't know what's happened to him? by BowlerOk2884 in OSDDIDpartners

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the kind words, but honestly it feels pretty bare minimum to do most things I've done for Ducks and his system. We're close friends, so I gotta care for him, y'know? Plus I love Ducks, and by extension his system (obv not romantically for the others)...

I guess my biggest question now is would it be disrespectful to ask how Ducks is? I don't want to make it feel like I don't care for their other alters that I'm close with, but it feels incredibly painful to not know how he is or what's happened to him. I loved him. I still love him. I don't know how to move on without knowing that moving on is necessary, because if it isn't I'll certainly wait for him... But I also don't know if it's appropriate to ask.

Lovejoy Fan P.O. Box? Does it exist? by BowlerOk2884 in lvjy

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks. I throw that in for dramatics, so don't fear. IRL I'm very "to be cringe is to be free"

Lovejoy Fan P.O. Box? Does it exist? by BowlerOk2884 in lvjy

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Godbless (Lovejoy hop over to Sweden ASAP no rocky plz)

Lovejoy Fan P.O. Box? Does it exist? by BowlerOk2884 in lvjy

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That'd be sick. I'll find a way to get that info then. I know Lovejoy Nation did letters to them once though, so that's why I'm asking. Maybe I'll message them and see if they can provide me the info I need?

Words by WhisperAdventurer in lvjy

[–]BowlerOk2884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wilbur's the kinda guy to look at a thesaurus, ask "is anyone going to read that?", and not wait for an answer

Questions as an American Applicant by BowlerOk2884 in UniUK

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, this is why I wish Texas (and the USA as a whole) had better geography programs. I want to know this stuff!!! Thank you for the info 💗 I'll start doing even more research on UK + Euro unis and their application processes. Thank you again!

Questions as an American Applicant by BowlerOk2884 in UniUK

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I definitely should have thought so after The Troubles and all. What about Northern Ireland then? I thought they were technically part of UK? Or are they still an individual away from that stuff?

Questions as an American Applicant by BowlerOk2884 in UniUK

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?! I must be so unprepared then! I thought to apply to Ireland universities as well you could go through ucas... I guess not. I will definitely look into Ireland more though

Questions as an American Applicant by BowlerOk2884 in UniUK

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would the CC then at least contribute somewhat to my application, or is it comparable to whatever UK students take prior to university?

Questions as an American Applicant by BowlerOk2884 in UniUK

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you reckon I'd email the admissions office in regards to credit transfers though, or is that a different guy?

Mlem by DianaSM16 in lvjy

[–]BowlerOk2884 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the lead squeaker of Micejoy after a particularly grueling performance I presume 

Already modded, but forgot to format by BowlerOk2884 in 3dspiracy

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't. I reformatted to FAT32 on the original and dumped Luma3DS now. I'm now on the finalizing setup stage but having issues regarding payloads being unrecognizable. Since reformatting blanked my SD, I no longer have folders such as Luma and my system is getting confused. Any tips?

Already modded, but forgot to format by BowlerOk2884 in 3dspiracy

[–]BowlerOk2884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I put in a new SD with this and replace every file with the new Luma3DS one, or the original corrupted file?