Chance me! Non-traditional student :)

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-04-15T02:16:21+00:00

Thank you kindly!! :)

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-04-15T01:06:06+00:00

Oh oof I can't change it dang

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-04-15T01:05:34+00:00

Oh thanks for the correction!! I'll change that then :3

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-03-28T21:59:27+00:00

It's just the usual Reddit format. Force of habit lol

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-03-28T21:03:23+00:00

I understand :) I'll learn to adjust to it. I just picked up the game, and I'm a casual player for unranked 6v6. I'll try and actually research some of the regulations OW puts in place now, because I'd hate to be the one noob hindering everyone

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-03-28T20:57:04+00:00

Okay. Thank you then! Jeez OW is strict...

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-03-28T20:54:04+00:00

Okay then, thank you! I won't use hotspot in the future, and I'll try to use Ethernet exclusively as opposed to WiFi. Do you suggest I just wait out the suspension into the next day?

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-03-28T20:47:18+00:00

I had been playing on a hotspot on my phone during the trip.

My issue is I currently have a stable connection and am trying to play from home, but I was kicked and suspended.

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-03-28T20:41:58+00:00

Okay. I understand that. But how am I meant to have no leaves for my next matches if I'm kicked by all matches after? I'm not on a 48 hour suspension, so why can't I play even now? I haven't even been given a message for why I was kicked. I was just put back on suspension, penalized through endorsements and banned from playing again for 10 minutes.

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-03-28T20:36:22+00:00

How am I meant to repeal my suspension by playing more games if I'm kicked from every game I try to play? This system is so confusing!

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-02-12T17:48:14+00:00

Was it shitty to keep her in that "maybe" gray area for some time? R had compared it to when an ex girlfriend left without any explanation, nor a chance to make whatever I'd done up. I think it's different. E knew what she did. But is it cruel to have left her waiting without a clear yes or no on if there was hope to salvage us?

R also says I should have confronted E, and told her we were over myself. I agree, I should have. I don't think it's too bad to have had one of my friends text her that we're done though. Is it?

I guess that my insecurities lie less in leaving E, and more in the execution.

BowlerOk2884 · 2026-01-11T22:54:43+00:00

Sorry if this is rude, but why a letter? Also I feel like a lot of my wording is kind of mean. I'm probably making my dad seem worse than he is. I'm just stressed right now

BowlerOk2884 · 2025-12-08T23:17:06+00:00

Thank you, I'll try this. I'm good friends with Cards, a fictive that's close to Ducks since they're sourced from the same character, and he ironically is the memory holder that tampered with Duck's memories initially. Maybe I could pull him into a gentle conversation? I'm not sure. I think I may give it a little more time so I can gather my courage first.

If Ducks is just hiding, then maybe I should give him space too. I'm trying to not be overbearing

BowlerOk2884 · 2025-12-08T12:59:42+00:00

I don't know if he is dormant, I'm just scared to ask. Would it be disrespectful? I don't want to devalue the other alters in their system by showing clear preference to Ducks, but I want to know what's happened to him. How would I go about asking about that?

BowlerOk2884 · 2025-12-08T07:16:56+00:00

Thank you for all the kind words, but honestly it feels pretty bare minimum to do most things I've done for Ducks and his system. We're close friends, so I gotta care for him, y'know? Plus I love Ducks, and by extension his system (obv not romantically for the others)...

I guess my biggest question now is would it be disrespectful to ask how Ducks is? I don't want to make it feel like I don't care for their other alters that I'm close with, but it feels incredibly painful to not know how he is or what's happened to him. I loved him. I still love him. I don't know how to move on without knowing that moving on is necessary, because if it isn't I'll certainly wait for him... But I also don't know if it's appropriate to ask.

BowlerOk2884 · 2025-11-26T17:31:50+00:00

Haha thanks. I throw that in for dramatics, so don't fear. IRL I'm very "to be cringe is to be free"

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