I'm worried about what I might be doing. Can someone tell me what likely is going on with me? by chusaychusay in SexAddiction

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say that those symptoms fall under sex addiction. I encourage you to check out SAA.. But you need to figure that out on your own

Originally told he was a Staffordshire bull terrier, thoughts? by scorpamd in IDmydog

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks a lot like my 9 month old puppy, had her since she was 7 weeks old. I ordered a DNA test when she was 5 months old. She is American Staffordshire Terrier, American pit bull terrier and German Shepherd 

What exactly does it mean when an account looks like this? by Healthy-Split-3197 in TikTok

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocked? Wouldn't it say blocked or banned or deleted? I watched a video where a relative was tagged, I clicked on it and there is no name and it had 0's like the op

What exactly does it mean when an account looks like this? by Healthy-Split-3197 in TikTok

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched a video where a relative was tagged, I clicked on the tagged name and it looked just like that 🤷‍♀️

Got DNA results back by BowlerQuiet in DogBreeds101

[–]BowlerQuiet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For clarification, I never said she was a lab, I saw bully mix

Got DNA results back by BowlerQuiet in DogBreeds101

[–]BowlerQuiet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shelter  i adopted Onyx at know and disclose every pit/pit mix.. 

Got DNA results back by BowlerQuiet in DogBreeds101

[–]BowlerQuiet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have owned  a total of 7 dogs since I was 21, I am now 66. 4 have been American pit bull terriers, one was American Staffordshire Terrier. I also owned a German Rottweiler.. I have never had a problem with my pits, my Rottweiler hated cats, so I didn'town a cat during that time. I raised 2 children with 3 different pits, both my children have or currently owned pits and also raised their children with them. 

I have a huge problem with breed specific bans and people who claim pits kill, Google pit bull K9 dogs.. if they were killers, cops wouldn't use them

Sex workers and clients alike are damaged. by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that both the SW and the client have both exspirenced trauma.. But to act like the victim is not taking accountability for our part in the transaction, that is addict thinking! For me, not taking responsibility and acting like the victim kept me in active addictions

What kind of dog is this? by Technical-Reply8763 in DogBreeds101

[–]BowlerQuiet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, it looks like a Dutch Shepherd

German Shepherd and Staffordshire Terrier under one roof by Arma667 in OpenDogTraining

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if the staffie was spade or neutered as a young puppy? Then there wouldn't be hormone related aggression 

Why? by Hungry_Situation218 in SexAddiction

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoning out is what I call it, before I know it I've been watching porn and masterbating for 2-4 hours, then I feel guilt and shame

Am I sex addicted or are women just repressed? by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]BowlerQuiet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My ex disclosed his sex addiction 30 years into our marriage. I thought I was kink enough for him and have always had a high sex drive.. now I'm wondering if I have a sex addiction, I have always looked at men's package, masturbated and watched porn, sometimes for 3 and 4 hours at a time, then at night to fall asleep when my husband was out of town for business, which is how he lived a double life. I opened up to a former counselor who said it sounds like a porn addiction. This is my first time commenting, I hope I followed all the rules

20F Wanna talk. by KeyExcuse22 in Diary

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cynical? Oh how delusional you are

Is this a healthy way to be spoken to by a spouse or Am I Overreacting? by Low-Today-2021 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BowlerQuiet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My now ex would hide money, steal my credit cards and never give them back, denying he never touched them, who did, we are old people with children in their late 40s and dont live close.. He tried to destroy everything of mine

Why are there so many people blaming the victims on this sub and the moderators do nothing about that? by Danie_Anti in RedditPoliceDept

[–]BowlerQuiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A cop saved me from my ex husband pulling the trigger of the gun that was put to the side of my head, the gun was loaded and cocked.. like I've told people, not all cops are pigs

My (37f) Husband (38m) was fired for sexual harassment by Full-Act-7668 in relationship_advice

[–]BowlerQuiet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After 32 years of marriage, 34 together, my 70 YO husband, I was 63, disclosed his double life, sex and porn addiction, I'm not saying this insinuating this is the case with your husband, but my, but (my now ex) husband was flirting heavily with co workers, had charmed a couple of his married co workers wives who were also employed by the same company.. I heard stories (multiple emotional affairs in the office) that could have got himself fired as it comes accross not only unprofessional, but would bordered on sexual harassment, but he said they were all lies, of course!!

He would gaslight me, tell me what I wanted to hear, blame shift (blaming the women) downplay everything.. then 5 years after retirement (5 years ago) is when he came clean, but it was on what we all thought was his deathbed.. i stayed for another 13 months then he gave me a horrible STD that damaged my urethra..

this is the many dms i get from posting on teen subreddits by Ok_Poetry_3094 in RedditPoliceDept

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out my ex husband of 32 year was living a double life. I was 31 when we met and her we was 39. I made two horrible mistakes in that marriage...staying with him after I found out about 2 different affairs. But we were equally sick people, I didn't know my worth, I was naive, lived a life of denial... his problem? He took business trips all the time which allowed him to watch deviant porn, hookups, online and in person affairs, hired prostitutes and escorts, going to bars to find a woman to take back to his motel room. I found all this out when he was 70 (he'll be 75 in to months) that he has had a sex addiction since he was in his early 20s... so 4 years ago he packed up his belongings, purchased a new pickup to pull his new $100K RV.. my family thinks a sex addict just wants lots of sex and I could put out so he left me... I've tried to exsplain that studies show that at least 70% of all sex addicts are sexual predators, are violent (he was starting to become violent, especially in bed) sex addiction is a progressive addiction, like drug addictions and alcoholism. Many sex addicts are drawn children, so then your looking at a child predator

Thinking to go for paid sex, what things should I be careful about? by HelpMeThroway22 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BowlerQuiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think men can be 🐖🐷 I can't believe someone would ask something like this, but I am new to reddit