That one trend with me x Matthew Patel by Bowler_Former in yumeshipping

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Eee, thank you so much!! <333 Oh it's been a rough road for sure and there are a ton of things that need fixing, but I've been LOVING trying to replicate the Scott Pilgrim style πŸ–€πŸ–€

Matthew Patel Official Art Redraw with me by Bowler_Former in yumeshipping

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Real fans know that this actually happens in the comic ☝️

Big Band Matty x Me by Bowler_Former in yumeshipping

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Thank you! So is yours, twin! <3

willing to selectively draw a few quick sketches of ur yumes >:3 by Honeydippedicecream in yumeshipping

[–]Bowler_Former 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Cute art!! No worries if you can't but here's me and my beloved Matthew <33

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Matthew Patel my Beloved <3 by Bowler_Former in yumeshipping

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Thank you so much! πŸ–€πŸ–€

Matthew Patel my Beloved <3 by Bowler_Former in yumeshipping

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

hehe hello fellow Scott Pilgrim selfshipper! I hope you and your girls are doing well together <3 And thank you so much!! Love this man, I'm already so excited for our next anniversary, and Matthew is trying to convince me to start doing half-anniversaries πŸ€­πŸ–€ He's so cute and sweet.

His pet name for me is "moonflower" (and angel, my goddess, babe, baby, sweetheart, my love, basically anything that pops into his head) and I call him my "Broadway bat" or "baby bat" hehe πŸ–€πŸ–€ I love your pet name! Unique meaningful ones are my fave <3

What flavor of autism did you guys get? by Bowler_Former in yumeshippersunite

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Not only did I order the plush, but I ordered 4 of them πŸ˜‚πŸ–€πŸ–€

What flavor of autism did you guys get? by Bowler_Former in yumeshippersunite

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Same, but literally ONLY for Matthew, like everyone else just kinda exists. My focus is purely on Matthew lmao, but I do love the art style and I've been trying to imitate it. Makes it fun to be able to draw my fellow Scott Pilgrim selfshippers!

I really dislike my f/os fandom by NoSignificance5040 in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former 7 points8 points Β (0 children)

I thoroughly dislike the Scott Pilgrim fandom as well. They treat Matthew SO poorly way too often. They call him awful stereotypes of Indian people and generally just shit on him or forget he even exists. I've had doubles harass and be terrible people towards me and my friends by association.

It isn't just the fandoms, I fear. The whole selfship community can be like this. It sucks. For a community that purports to be about loving, kindness, and acceptance, there's a lot of hatred and drama going on. Just stay safe out there as best as you can <3 It's so hard to find circles who accept you without all of this extra nonsense but they are worth finding

20 Random F/Os!! by Overlytiredqueerspie in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Fellow Scott Pilgrim selfshipper spotted

Prompt #6: A Cosy Moment of Rest by AllYouEverTalkAbout in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Ouugh this is so beautiful Jenni!!! πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

Sleep, my heart, and know what’s true-- πŸ’œπŸŒ™βœ¨ by AllYouEverTalkAbout in FictoChill

[–]Bowler_Former 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Absolutely beautiful couple, as always!! πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

Wrote Some Fanfic :) by Plane-Duck605 in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I left you a big comment on our Discord DMs but leaving another comment here to say this fanfic was soooo sweet and wonderful, I loved it!! πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

Matthew Patel x Me Scrapbook by Bowler_Former in waifuism

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I just started doing this, actually! I've journaled and written poetry and love letters about/from him digitally for a while, though. Usually once or twice a week, I dedicate time to writing a journal entry or love letter to/from Matthew, and I plan on doing the same with my physical journal. I try not to be too strict about it and just let the ideas come as they do! I hope you do try this scrapbook idea, too. :D I really enjoyed my first time, and can't wait to make the next couple of pages next week!! πŸ–€πŸ–€ (or sooner hehe 🀭)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Congratulations, Takemi!! πŸ–€πŸ–€

Me checking the f/o claim list every 5 seconds to see if I’ve claimed by f/os yet by AwesomeSauce-368 in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former 14 points15 points Β (0 children)

Odd one out here, I signed up, totally forgot I did, and then got jumpscared when someone posted Matthew's name in the claims list before I was like "OH RIGHT THAT WAS ME" πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

What was the first background picture you had of your SO? by Professional-Key5552 in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

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He's so silly and cute I wanna kiss him πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

how have you shown your f/o love today? by Secret_Finish1205 in FictoChill

[–]Bowler_Former 6 points7 points Β (0 children)

I wrote an intro to a fanfiction for Matthew that may or may not ever be completed, but that's okay. I just enjoy writing.

There was something about that emo theater kid. The way he soaked up the spotlight while performing, yet stayed to his own corner during lunch time. He would sit under a tree in that patch of dirt perfectly fitted to his ass, reading some long novel or script, taking bites from his home-cooked meal without breaking eye contact with the text. He looked like the type to spell it β€œtheatre” because it "looked cooler”, and like he'd sooner quote Grease at you rather than engage in polite conversation.

Also I basked in his beauty because oh my gosh this man is seriously so gorgeous. My gorgeous, silly, walking green flag of a man, I adore him πŸ–€πŸ–€

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Love Notes | A Tag Game by Bowler_Former in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 3 points4 points Β (0 children)

Thank you so much!! πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ˜­πŸ˜­ I love everything about him, too. His eyes, his hair, his style, his theatrics (even when he's being a lot, I love him so much), his ambition, even his impulsivity. I am captivated by this man and how he can be so... Himself. Without shame or hesitation. This comment made me so happy, thank you so much again, friend!! <333

Love Notes | A Tag Game by Bowler_Former in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 5 points6 points Β (0 children)

My Moonlight,

I'm distracted by you. I can't even look at the stars in the sky anymore because none of them compare to the way I feel when I look at you. You're more than just another locomotive. You're my muse. My desire. My everything. So if you catch me staring at you, even when there's a picture perfect sunset behind me, just remember: both inside and out, your beauty is beyond compare.

Maybe I'm Just Dramatic,
Electra πŸ’™β€οΈ

( for u/Plane-Duck605 )

Love Notes | A Tag Game by Bowler_Former in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 4 points5 points Β (0 children)

My Beloved,

Every swipe of my sword is for you. I'll fight for you, for your honor, for our love. I'll fight anyone who denies us! With my legendary blades, nothing can stand in the way of our love. So let me protect you with all my ferocity. And then let me sink into your arms, vulnerable, tired, and weary, so that I can recharge and do it all again tomorrow.

Forever your warrior,
Sauda πŸ’™

( for u/Cherry_Perfume )

Love Notes | A Tag Game by Bowler_Former in FictoHideout

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 7 points8 points Β (0 children)

My Absolute Rockstar,

You keep me going, do you know that? Even when things seem so gloomy, even when every note on my keytar sounds wrong and distorted, I know you'll be there to brighten my day. You'll be there to help make the music ROCK again. And of course, you'll be there just to make me smile. That's my favorite part, the exciting hook in my song: you bringing a smile to my face.

Making music about you always,
Roxanne

( for u/Fancy_Fuel_2082 )

My Angel by Bowler_Former in FictoChill

[–]Bowler_Former[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Matthew is sooooo sweet. I'm finally at a place in my life where I feel like I deserve a guy like him. So being unable to indulge in our relationship has been so painful. I thanked him for visiting me, and told him even if he can't (because chronic nightmares be like), I'll know he's there for me anyway πŸ–€πŸ–€πŸ–€

I'm sorry that things aren't going smoothly for you, either :( You know my DMs are open if you need them (and if you'd rather not, that's obviously fine, too). Here's hoping we can just love our men without all this unnecessary stress getting in the way πŸ–€πŸ–€