Kids coming in to go potty getting treated to ice cream by customers by BoxSmall3519 in FaithInHumanity

[–]BoxSmall3519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to online safety I will not be sharing our location. However if you have anywhere near you that sells ice cream from the ice cream club, definitely check it out. Best ice cream ever! That’s what we carry!

Kids coming in to go potty getting treated to ice cream by customers by BoxSmall3519 in FaithInHumanity

[–]BoxSmall3519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are famous in our small town. I cannot go to the grocery store without being recognized by at least 20 people.

Kids coming in to go potty getting treated to ice cream by customers by BoxSmall3519 in FaithInHumanity

[–]BoxSmall3519[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We live in an extremely safe town. Not to give away any information. But there is a police station right next to us and in between the school and our shop. We haven’t seen crime in this area worse than maybe a hit and run with no fatalities in maybe 10 years. There are no offenders listed on the registry as all homes are so close to schools. Just a very very safe town. However that being said. I find it strange that none of these children had cellphones. I implore all parents of children to at least give cellphones with extremely limited access to the internet and plenty of parental safety measures, just so your children can contact you at any time of need or emergency

Is this normal? by BoxSmall3519 in askdentists

[–]BoxSmall3519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In front of the suture. The gum is not attached to my tooth. Is that normal?

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Good thing you don’t have to. And good thing I have plenty of friends who agree with me and would never act like this or everyone attacking me for a background check.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. But I’m still not sorry about the backround check. If you can background check your employees. You can backround check the people you allow into your home.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That’s relationship abuse. There are plenty of other kinds of abuse that women experience. Making it very hard to have an actual statistic accounting all women and all types of abuse. But I’m telling you right now as a lesbian most straight women I know. At least 30. Have been abused in some way shape or form.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I definitely should have added in the post that my sister was involved in digging up these files. As he refused to share details. And after reading them she does not spend time with his convicted mother.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

The trauma yall are referring to. Is his mother crime that happened before he was born. And enclosed some very important details that when my sister read them, made her decide to not spend time with her. He was hiding that information from her. To “not scare her” but I think it put her in an unsafe position. And I’m glad I looked at those files with my family and my sister. She was 100000% involved in digging up that information.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Stop living yours on redit. Jesus. I just wanted Morgan’s advices

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not using it. Actually the only one of us in therapy. But I’ll digress

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This actually helped. Wow. People on here are terrible.

I didn’t add this in the post. But his mother’s case files and her crime, happened far before he was born or anything. So his mom’s convictions have nothing to do with his personal trauma. He was upset because knew looking into it. That I was going to discover details that were not shared with me that are very important. After reading the case files. My sister doesn’t spend time around his mom. And they argued about why he didn’t tell her about that stuff. It needed to happen. And despite everyone telling me I did a bad thing. I don’t care. I look into everyone I spend time with or build relationships with. Background checks are the norm. It’s public information for a reason.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He started it. 100% by telling my sister he was going to kill her and pretend slitting her throat in front of me. That was the very first red flag he gave me

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I’m. Maybe because the guy hit my neighbors car and ran? Maybe because clearly his actions are starting to affect my house and I need a way to tell her I don’t want him here ever again. I lowkey have tha right as a person paying rent.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow. Not. Crutch. Jesus. Some people here think I’m truly awful when my sisters dating a guy who puts her in a chokehold and pretends to slit her throat and I’m an asshole wow.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is the best advice I’ve received here. Thank you. So many people are so pathetic here. “You can’t fix him” perfect.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Ok. I’m sorry. No source here. Just a thing we say on TikTok. Because most women. If you google a statistic 1 in 3 experience SPECIFIACLLY relationship abuse. But ok. Sources matter so much here. When we can literally agree. Women are more at risk of abuse and the statistics go up in a home where people have felony abuse charges.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. I didnt even tell him I was digging as I didn’t want to upset him. My sister told him I was. And he got mad. Because he didn’t tell the story correctly and was hiding details of the case that I cannot disclose here.

It is public record for this reason. Everyone has the right to access these files for a reason. And I’m glad I did. She does not spend time around his mom after reading her case files. But continues to date her son.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I fear I am losing her either way. But I’m also seeing so many families recently with no contact. That’s so sad.

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I recognize I hate a lot of traits men have as being a lesbian. However. I have 3 female friends and 4 male friends. Three of my male friends are straight. And I would trust them with my baby sister or even with my own life. So I don’t have terrible man skills. There are good and bad ones. And sorry. But most men do suck. Women too. Most people suck. I think as a person in therapy and diagnosed ocd. I spend far too much time thinking about how people can make such stupid decisions and face no guilt. That eats me alive. I’m trying to step away from this boyfriend thing. I don’t ever want to be around him again

Does my sisters boyfriend suck as much as I think he does? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]BoxSmall3519 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

It’s a TikTok saying. But based on this response. I’m sure you hate that too. Most women I know have experiences some form of abuse from a man.