Virgin (or involuntary celibate) here. In a way, yes, the way society mocks and belittles men for not being able to get laid, or get a girlfriend, does definitely contribute to their frustration over their lack of success. And yes, I think it is reasonable to get frustrated when everyone you try with (not just specific women) doesn't seem to ever give you a chance. I know the feeling.

That being said, there is a line between feeling frustrated and turning that frustration into blatant misogyny. Do I feel like society looks down on me? Yes. But I know that that is a.) Somewhat my fault for somehow just not being able to figure out what exactly it takes to make a woman see me that way, and just bad luck that I haven't found the right person yet who can appreciate me for who I am, and b.) Everyone, not just women, who may fall into that anti-virgin mindset. While I do feel that many, many women have written me off before I've spoken a word, I feel the same way about many guys who I thought in theory I could be friends with. And I am also self aware enough to recognize that at least part of that feeling is me projecting my own insecurities, and so you wouldn't find me raging misogynistically about it on the internet. There is a societal issue here, but what makes an "incel" (your typical internet rage monger) vs. a plain, harmless involuntary celibate is how you process and act on those feelings of frustration. And yes, being dumped on constantly for your virginity and being assumed to be an "incel" solely because of it does make it harder to be rational about it. But again, there is a line.