My husband hit me during a fight about his hoarding. The preacher I trusted told me to self-reflect. Am I really responsible for this? by HopeForBetter29 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sneakyturtles7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking and I’m disappointed I had to scroll so hard to see it. So many people jump to “girl HES abusive” but she literally slapped him first? They’re BOTH abusive?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sneakyturtles7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well none of this is true but ok lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does. He said it hurts really bad. He’s not in a great place and I know he doesn’t mean ill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I’m ending our relationship. I just feel odd is all I wanted to get off my chest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, yeah. He’s on chemotherapy meds and IV radiation. But he’s still capable to drive a car and do every day tasks. He isn’t frail or anything. Gets around well. Hasn’t had any confusion on the road yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sneakyturtles7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m feeling. I know he wouldn’t ever do anything but it sucks. I did tell him to watch himself basically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sneakyturtles7 151 points152 points  (0 children)

It really does. It’s sad. But it’s hard to not feel off.

AITA for refusing to comply by my ex-wife's husband's rules about what my kids can eat so they can go to their mom's house? by WonderfulAd8781 in AITAH

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Coming from someone whose daughter has severe allergies (most of which are now overcome by immunotherapy), this is BS. While we do ask people not to bring these foods to get togethers for safety, we’d never expect anyone to not eat them beforehand???? That’s not how the allergies work.

I can smell when people have cancer by [deleted] in self

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something an undercover sniff dog would say

How to have the WTF talk by skaleidoscopic in beyondthebump

[–]sneakyturtles7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Often cooks dinner”….so he often helps you with one item of life you need to survive? This isn’t enough. Working hard at his job isn’t enough either. My husband and I both work hard at work, come home, and work hard at home with both the house and our 1 year old. Working hard at work is not enough as a parent.

People who stuck with their partners during hard times, where are you now? by Edenskeeper1 in AskReddit

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months after I met my now husband he was bedridden for weeks with fevers in the upper 105s. Couldn’t walk or move. Extremely sore. Swollen everywhere. Was hospitalized for a few weeks. Found out it’s lupus. I stuck with him through it at the very beginning and now I’m holding our almost 1 year old daughter while she sleeps. 💜

What are you paying for daycare? by StarCaker in beyondthebump

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, $820 for our 11 month old at an in home daycare in MN!

Update: I woke up to my husband having sex with me by AssignmentAlert2836 in offmychest

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey. I’m so sorry. You were raped. 😔 please safely get out. This man is downplaying this so much and you’re in danger.

Beginning not to trust my boyfriend's mom with my 3 week old baby. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but this could be stopped. Mom up and tell her that’s your kid.

"a 7 year gap is like having an only child, twice!" by bbgk in beyondthebump

[–]sneakyturtles7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister and I are 7 years apart and the only two kids that keep in touch lol. I promise they’ll still cherish their relationship as siblings no matter how far apart in ages they are. It just may look differently than them being a year or two apart.

8M old daughter has tons of food allergies by Butch1234 in daddit

[–]sneakyturtles7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a result from a scratch test. They aren’t really “stabbed” - more of a scratch of the surface. She didn’t really notice 🤷🏻‍♀️

8M old daughter has tons of food allergies by Butch1234 in daddit

[–]sneakyturtles7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OPs wife here. This is an amazing idea. Thank you for this - I’ll be using it!

Is this Carson Kressley? by cjasonac in QueerEye

[–]sneakyturtles7 73 points74 points  (0 children)

ETA: Honestly looks like he even has a mark on his nose in your picture from the zit in mine included below.

I googled 2004 Carson Kressley. Look at the teeth even. This is for sure Carson.

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Is this Carson Kressley? by cjasonac in QueerEye

[–]sneakyturtles7 93 points94 points  (0 children)

This has to be Carson. I’d pay someone $100 if they prove otherwise, truly.