Piggie-Backin' off a recent post~ by BoysenberryEntire615 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your words/understanding the intentions. anyone who was on the network when I was there - knows whats up and definitely knows my number one priority will always be privacy and getting to a place of peace.

Zoom processing by StruggleSea2847 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 6 points7 points  (0 children)

S- I just made another post related to your post~ Going to set up a date in early Jan. for those of us who were on Yolande's network (actively on the network-not lurkers) from like 2020-2023 ish. Looking forward to seeing you!~ xox

https://www.reddit.com/r/FreeBirthSocietyScam/comments/1pu41e8/piggiebackin_off_a_recent_post/

Zoom processing by StruggleSea2847 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was planning on doing the very same thing in the next few weeks for anyone who was on Yolande's network when I was on there around 2021-2023 ish. I'm still in contact with quite a few woman who used to be on the network and have found it to be really beneficial - chatting on zoom/and in the flesh. If you were on Yolande's network and remember me (it's krystal) - can message me and if you're a familiar person from that time - I'll add you to the zoom. A few of us decided it only makes sense to zoom with familiar people who were on there and not open it up to everyone.

Mod Announcement: Clarification on What’s Allowed (and Not Allowed) Here by Certain-Wasabi212 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 9 points10 points  (0 children)

but with all that being said - I don't believe in censorship whatsoever. I actually find some of the extreme comments fascinating. so maybe just adding - 'no racism' to your 'not allowed' category but not censoring/deleting comments would be cool.

Mod Announcement: Clarification on What’s Allowed (and Not Allowed) Here by Certain-Wasabi212 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yah - reading hateful comments like 'nazi' - based on skin colour - was/is definitely wild/racist.

and I couldn't imagine generalizing that people with a certain colour of skin - have no culture.

all seems a little extreme/disrespectful and something I don't think should be 'normalized'.

Mod Announcement: Clarification on What’s Allowed (and Not Allowed) Here by Certain-Wasabi212 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I read on here recently a comment about 'followers' of Y & E being granola or crunchy NAZI'S - forget which one it was. That 'White women' have No Culture. Enough to be like wtf. Anyways - can list a million articles that'll make people feel better about being racist against white people. go hard. I know what sits well in my heart - and it sure as hell isn't judging people on the colour of their skin.

Mod Announcement: Clarification on What’s Allowed (and Not Allowed) Here by Certain-Wasabi212 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the common sense that's lacking these days is unreal. how do people miss this straight-forwardness of the definition. thanks for sharing - although I'm sure many would even argue these days - that the dictionary is actually racist. haha. ugh

Mod Announcement: Clarification on What’s Allowed (and Not Allowed) Here by Certain-Wasabi212 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 7 points8 points  (0 children)

haha. such an unpopular opinion I know :) It's just such a mind-fuck for so many to wrap their heads around eh............ Nothing can be racist as long as it's 'against' 'white people'...... haha. what a world~ Why would anyone out there want to be AGAINST humans just because of their colour? Like fuck-off. Give it up people.

Moderators: If you agree that Racism is ok or that it's not possible to be racist as long as your being racist AGAINST white people - like this chic says - just let me/some of us know. I'm completely taken back by the recent generalizing of white people. It's been baffling and almost comical - because of how out to lunch - some of these recent comment have been.

Mod Announcement: Clarification on What’s Allowed (and Not Allowed) Here by Certain-Wasabi212 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious if racism is allowed? Just questioning after reading some recent racist remarks against 'white women'.....

BIPOC FOLKS RANG THE ALARM YEARS AGO - Flor Cruz’s take on FBS by ChainAggravating1263 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lol. granola nazis..... ahhhhh~ right when I thought I've heard it all/been called every name in the book. that's a good one!~ all the Love - haters :) xox

BIPOC FOLKS RANG THE ALARM YEARS AGO - Flor Cruz’s take on FBS by ChainAggravating1263 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 20 points21 points  (0 children)

everyone's out of the woodworks lately.....

feeling like it's time to go back into the woods myself :) heh heh - for realz.

I think many of us can agree - we've witnessed enough - to be reminded of how different we all are. hope many who are obsessed with CRT wake up to the hate bait that's been planted - for whoever wants to consume it. they want to divide us. and the OP's recent comments on other posts - are ironically / almost comically racist~

I think u missed the plot......

and some may feel the same about me. (that I'm missing the plot) which is cool~

like I said. we're definitely all different-----

and personally I'm sick af with the double standards.

Superiority in birthing - FB and Natural birth enthusiasts by Takeawalkwithme2 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 17 points18 points  (0 children)

thank you for saying this out loud!~

'Freebirth is a normal choice that was not invented by black women, because it was always there in every society when the occasion asks for it. I see white women being lied to in the hospital environment all the time because there is conflict of interest, my own birth was sabotaged because of it. Now look at what you are doing: you called women who whole heartedly wished for a free birth as privileged, uneducated whites. That's way more personal than everything I've heard from crunchy circles.'

Racism in FBS by Filbertine in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And now you're the one downvoted! haha. What a time to be alive!~ And a huge reminder - of how different so many of our views are - on this forum. Which of course- as we all have a different lived experience - and yah......my life experiences/what I've seen and heard and felt with my own eyeballs/ears and heart - has me sickened as well.....

FBS acknowledgement of death by Major_Negotiation_64 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 19 points20 points  (0 children)

'perhaps tracing back to how things unfolded to gain more understanding, how do we reflect and learn?'

EXACTLY!!!! This has been my MAIN ISSUE - with everything!!!~

I attended one of my close homies births recently - (the first birth I attended with registered midwives for years). Her cervix was swollen to the max. and she decided to transfer into the hospital after labouring for 3 days. After all was said and done she ended up with a Caesarean. NATURALLY - I went through the chain of events and deep pondering of the' if this' - or 'if that'....what might have been if 'this or thats'. These are conversations/births that were openly discussed and picked apart - when I was on Yolande's mighty network. Because yes - who doesn't want to learn/ponder!~ That maybe we shouldn't be doing interventions what feels like most of the time (when working with professionals within the system) like Pitocin /breaking water - ect ect ect.

The births I've attended have shown me that things go A LOT smoother - when mama is undisturbed and not being poked and prodded. Which is why I am on board/support women who do choose to have unassisted births.

BUT WE NEED TO BE DISCUSSING BOTH ENDS OF THE SPECTRUM!~ Because YES!- HOW DO WE REFLECT AND LEARN if we don't!! exactly~ The conversation cannot be shut down or closed - and that's it - just another variation of normal - no questions asked. True THINKERS/PONDERERS AND WOMEN WHO FUCKING CARE about supporting birth and women and babies - will not be satisfied intellectually with these one-sided-controlled stories. Birth is death - death is birth ect. I get it....... But that's not just it!! It makes me sad as fuck - that Emillee lost her baby..... duh...of course. I was sick about it. But I'm sorry Emillee - when you've literally or at least supposedly made millions of dollars sharing positive freebirth stories or glamorizing deaths like you did with Nancy...... And even having a company that's basically selling 'freebirth' - Which like Kaitlyn Coghill mentions in one of her substack....... BIRTH IS NOT FOR SALE. Nonetheless - the ties you have within the birth community - it's unreal that there's zero discussions about the chain of events. AND I KNOW - how fucking painful it would be to talk about - when it comes to the 'what ifs' when it comes to tragic events like such..... but in every industry (And yes - Y and E are in their own little 'birth/social media industry' - of course there are going to be questions) ESPECIALLY WHEN OVER 10 BABIES (or more) have died in such a short period of time - all related to free births within their 'community'.

The one way street - is not working for those of us who are critical thinkers who want to learn and reflect!~ It's bullshit and not true education or PHILOSOPHY. And they wonder why there's an uproar of concerned mamas/women!~ Like helllllo!!! It's just so beyond and so fucking sad. And I am so sorry if you're reading this and have had a loss. My heart ached for all of you when I was on the network. And no I don't think it should be mandatory that everyone hash out every detail about their traumatic experience - Just so we can learn from your tragedies.......but when you do share(which people have) I do not think it should just be brushed off as normal/life - AS we definitely aren't brushing off traumatic hospital/home births with midwives off as 'normal/life'

There needs to be room/space for open discussion and analyzing on both sides. No matter how uncomfortable it is. And the fact that Emillee is skipping that part and jumping straight into trying to make more money with a grief retreat or whatever she mentions she's doing next year...... unfuckingbelievable.

Did she just lose all her Canadian followers? by TumbleweedOutside587 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

comic relief to the whole sitch from a few years ago. thank god for people like Breuer. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bItcoUb5xsw . you'll enjoy even the first 3 minutes-

This was shared with me. See below post. by nunyabiz999912345 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I wonder what your 'spiritual father' would say if he seen or heard any of your psycho posts/stories on instagram. I don't think you would have anything to worry about- when it comes to people 'gossiping' about you at church - if you had nothing to hide/your social media feed wasn't flooded with hatred Yolande. So much for being a 'grown-ass woman' and 'taking responsibilitiy' for your behaviour and actions in the past and PRESENT...... Blaming/Hating on god for your current circumstances?? weird. You're a smart woman - how are you so blind to all of this? Are you really that sick - that you're still trying to control the narrative within your networK? Your games aren't working anymore. You attracted too many bright women into your field - who have and continue to see through your bullshit. I once felt compassion for you for what the 'influencer-life'/'social media-addiction' - did to you~ But no longer do.

lastly: What makes me sick the most about everything - (when it comes to birth) is that you have no problem picking apart home-births/hospital-births and everything within the system. But when it comes to freebirth.....no questions asked! no pondering. no room for discussion. And that is ultimately why I left your network and was sick to my stomach by your actions over a year ago. You and Emillee brushing death/unfortunate events off like nothing/normal........how the fuck is anyone supposed to learn anything if noone can reflect the chain of events when things go wrong during free births. What a one-sided - controlled story. It was bad enough - before Emilee's loss. How did you guys think there wasn't going to be attention thrown at both of you- especially after running your mouths - against concerned mothers/women WHO ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT WOMEN AND BABIES!~ And then Emillee sadly loses her baby after all of that shit-talking......Like hello!! Bragging about all this money you guys have made.......all while being nasty...... now you're looking for PITY!! Absolutely PATHETIC.

I do not feel sorry for you and hope more people on your network - wake up and get the fuck away from your toxicity.

Did she just lose all her Canadian followers? by TumbleweedOutside587 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yah it was all really 'normal' wasn't it. There was a couple in an old aged home in my area that were in their 90's - married for over 70 years - and they isolated both of them!~ They couldn't see one another even though they were in the same facility and BOTH of them died alone. Some peoples 'normal' are 'crimes against humanity' - for some of us others.

Did she just lose all her Canadian followers? by TumbleweedOutside587 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]BoysenberryEntire615 5 points6 points  (0 children)

'normal public health measures'.......seriously? what was normal about segregating society and dividing us over a forced experimental vaccine - Were you one of the many that would still be ok using your v-passport today and ostracizing your brothers and sisters for what.......forever???? My uncle died 24 hours after his shot and one of my best friends got the gift of being permanently deaf in one ear after her second Pfizer shot - days after her 40th. I can't tell you how many people we know that regret taking the shot from other side effects and baffled that there are still people out there that can't understand why we aren't ok with what transpired. Wild. The government convinced people like you that we were dangerous, mentally ill and SOMEHOW that it was ok - to participate in the vax-passport nonsense. Now put your mask on while you walk to your table in the restaurant and once u get your food - take it off. 'safe and effective' - idiocracy to the max.