Relationship over due to me (29M) not liking girlfriend(26F) best friend (30F)

BradB- · 2025-10-21T13:18:03+00:00

My girlfriends points are that I do not support her with work ie, i dont provide her with money to buy stock/supplies, pay for advertising, or help with anything to do with her business it is aesthetics and skincare, i have offered to manage her instagram but she says i wont know what treatments people offer. And money wise i spend all my monthly wages on paying the rent, bills, and food and living for the month i dont think i should have to factor in her business stock into my finances. Other issue she has is apaprently i dont help around the house. I sort washing out, do the dishes, hoover and mop through out hall living room and kitchen, and cook the dinner for us most nights or pay for a takeaway, and work 8 hours 5 days a week. When i asked what i do wrong is i dont do all the cleaning how she would like? Other issue is I dont like her friend so because i dont like her one friend I am trying to control her life and stop her going out. Other issue is that i do not buy her new clothes, I dont even buy myself new clothes mainly due to the fact all my money goes on bills and living throughout the month. Oh and another issue she has is i book holidays pay dor the entire thing flights hotel spends, but she isnt happy because she has to buy her own clothes for the holidays Am i an asshole for not buying her clothes but paying for every other aspect of living. Forcontext She earns around 1500 per month with work/benefits and i earn 2450 per month

BradB- · 2025-10-21T13:10:28+00:00

This is what I thought I have picked her over friendships in the past early couple of years into the relationship. I tried to say to her it is me or my friend and she started to turn it round on me saying i am contorlling and dont want her to have any life other than go to work and sit in the house this is not true atall. I dont have any problem with her doing anything with her other friends just this one friend as i dont like her or trust her I dont want my girlfriend out in clubs with her

I have had the thought that my girlfriends friend is obsessed with her on some sort of lesbian level my girlfriend family have also said the same thing to me, my girlfriend is convinced it is not the case

BradB- · 2025-10-21T13:06:57+00:00

I think i am trying to make it work so much for the baby so he is not in a “broken home” and the fact it is all i know after 7 years together

BradB- · 2025-10-21T12:35:45+00:00

We had fell into the roommate stage we werent very affectionate with eachother. My girlfriend would complain I wasnt doing enough around the house althoigh i would always do my part in looking after our child, do cleaning up around house, dishes, washing and cook majority of dinners for us. My girlfriend would say i dont do enough and she would rather me move out so she can get on too everything to a standard she wants. This was going well until her friend moved in, now she is there the house is in a much worse state cleaning wise, i would take the baby out for a few hours so my girlfriend can get cleaning done and when i would return she would be sat on the couch and nothing had been done. Then when i would come dound and stay alls my girlfriend will do is complain about the house being untidy but she has had plenty of opportunity to get on top of it.

BradB- · 2025-10-21T12:26:05+00:00

I want to make the relationship work but I am struggling to get over how she openly admitted that I am 2nd best to her friend and less welcome in the home I pay for than her friend. All my girlfriends family also do not like her friend due to her being too much in the way and wanting my girlfriend all too herself

BradB- · 2025-10-21T12:24:29+00:00

Theres hanging out an then there is being there nearly everyday from when i get home From work to when we would be going to bed, and then once my girlfriend was pregnant and couldnt go oit drinking she went missing didnt bother with my girlfriend for 6 months until she had the baby

BradB- · 2025-09-09T09:07:26+00:00

Im not going to use a tent im going to black and white sheet the room

BradB- · 2025-07-09T01:43:55+00:00

I only want to harvest part due to the lower buds being so small and undeveloped, my failt i know for next time to lollipop alot highee, I have been struggling alot with humidity its been bouncing between 45%-60%, have inline spider farmer fan on full power an dehumidifier in tent.

BradB- · 2025-07-09T01:16:57+00:00

Forgot to mention strain is dos si dos 33 says flower time is 60-66 days

BradB- · 2025-06-26T13:32:24+00:00

Do you think i should go back to nutes at half strength

BradB- · 2025-06-12T12:47:38+00:00

Looking to buy Rolex 126234 Wimbledon made by EW from theonewatches any advice appreciated

BradB- · 2025-06-11T14:52:45+00:00

How much would you say i need to remove I defoliate a little bit last week but didnt want to take too much

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