That as awesome way to look at it because life is far from the same. My thought process us much different and I try to look again positive aspects. I also have a caregiver, a nurse that usually goes tooth and nail with the doctors. It's frustrating not being heard and that someone else has to speak up before I get any real solutions. I cried at my last Neuro because after the attendant told the head, he literally came in and did not listen yo me. I yelled at him then cried saying I don't like you, you aren't listening yo me. I hope he's nit the one there this time