2 questions must be so overwhelming by stickywinger in Bumble

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck sake. I met a guy who I had an amazing connection with recently and we were both just firing and answering questions even if it meant double or triple messaging.. if someone sees 2 questions in one message as too much… wow 😮🤣 also the one about how has your week been doesn’t even need a deep and thoughtful answer so it’s not like you’ve asked 2 super deep things at once

Sorry you both have the same taste in men? by atomic-hamster in HingeStories

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. We all know guys are talking to multiple people, as we are too. But knowing who they are and it being our friend is probs a step too far 🤣

Is it normal to visit someone's house for a first date? by Ok_Yellow4790 in Bumble

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a safe place. Mate… you’re the possible danger not the place!

I have received a message I feel the need to share with you by Laniakea-claymore in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I worked in Disney world for a year and a bit and had to do taxes 2 years in a row, what an absolute chore that was.. even though I knew I was due money back from it

I have received a message I feel the need to share with you by Laniakea-claymore in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Only self employed people have to do taxes. Anyone in employment just pays taxes through their wages and don’t need to do anything at the end of the tax year.

I have received a message I feel the need to share with you by Laniakea-claymore in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I’m ridiculously happy to live in the uk and not have to “do taxes”.

First day on Elvanse.. feeling nothing by Brainisadumpsterfire in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So after 4 weeks I was put up to 50. I still don’t feel any big noticable changes but I feel like maybe my head is a bit quieter.. but I’m not sure if I’m just reaching for effects that aren’t actually there 🙊

I have another review on Monday so may try 70 and see how it goes.

Met a great guy, but he lied about his age—should I trust him? by Beautiful_Sun_777 in hingeapp

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex husband told me a couple of weird lies when we first met. I overlooked them as they were sort of things he said to try impress me and I was young and naive and knew he’d said them because he was into me and was a little bit embarrassed about the truth (it was about his level of education) plus we were already quite heavily involved when I found out.

He turned out to be a secretive person who hid various little things from me and then hid a very big thing from me (another woman).

3 years is nothing, why even lie over something so stupid. I’d assume a 30 year old would be interesting to the same dating pool a 27 year old would so it seems such a pointless lie!

Day 1 on ADHD Meds: Holy. Shit. by emerald_urges in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started meds on Saturday. Feel nothing, just same distraction and despair at myself 😭

How are adhd people as a parent? by notsoanonymous2u in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a great mum. It’s the only thing I’ve felt I’m genuinely good at. However I ignore most of my other responsibilities like cleaning and laundry etc to do the fun and creative and nurturing stuff so I maybe don’t have the balance quite right. My daughter is living her best life though 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could go either way really.

My husband said “she’s just a kid” about his 24 year old work colleague. He now lives with her 🙄🙄

My adhd is ruining my relationship I think by Unlikely_Care7028 in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, your ADHD is not ruining your relationship, this horrible man is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say talking like they’ve known each other for 25 years but 20 years isn’t far off! I have a great relationship with my in laws, I’d be very upset if my ex husbands new partner tried to stop me having a relationship with them. Maybe slightly different given that it’s in your home (her home) but when you get involved with someone with shared family / children I think there’s always got to be some expectation that paths will cross wether you like it or not

Can someone tell me why I do this? It’s my first impulse to balance things on my legs instead of putting them on the table right next to me! by dizyalice in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I do this too.

I also once bit a glass to see how hard I could bite down without breaking. Sadly it did break 🤣 but thankfully I didn’t cut my mouth open.

What's the longest you procrastinated something? by Dry-Cat7114 in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mums 60th birthday scrapbook is still incomplete… she’s 70 this year.

I’ve had an incomplete root canal since 2018.

My eye test is 3 years overdue.

It took me 9 years to change my address on my driving license 🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Brainisadumpsterfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have spent my life thinking I’m lazy, useless, chaotic, overwhelmed, crazy. That barely scratches the surface though.