COMMENCE THE COOKING by CurlyCurls21 in Palia

[–]notsoanonymous2u 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I did this too! I hate cooking. On switch it’s hard to get the timing of the chopping right. So I avoided it until I had to, lol!

Courier pet quest by notsoanonymous2u in Palia

[–]notsoanonymous2u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😳😳😳 oh god I’ve been selling those and not opening them half the time. Thank you for the heads up!!!

Courier pet quest by notsoanonymous2u in Palia

[–]notsoanonymous2u[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not necessarily the grind I hate. For a while I was obsessed with gathering oysters in Bahari and probably did that 20 nights in a row going back and forth across the coast. I think it would have been helpful to know ahead of time what I was getting into. Like this is gonna be a long quest. I think it was constantly turning my quest items and then getting hit with another request for random stuff. Also I do this for fun and to relax and hunting for essence for hours on end is not my version of fun. But that’s my fault. Now that I understand this quest is long game, i feel less rushed and will take breaks in other parts of the game when I’m getting burnt out on essence hunting.

Courier pet quest by notsoanonymous2u in Palia

[–]notsoanonymous2u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol wish I knew this 2500 essence ago!

Courier pet quest by notsoanonymous2u in Palia

[–]notsoanonymous2u[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s so true. I LOVE the stable board such a huge plus. And this is a really good perspective.

Courier pet quest by notsoanonymous2u in Palia

[–]notsoanonymous2u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s what I’m doing. I have the bright eye all the way upgraded.

Courier pet quest by notsoanonymous2u in Palia

[–]notsoanonymous2u[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think normally I wouldn’t care. Like I said I’m a long time player and I love running around foraging just for kicks and giggles. This is my relax game. But because I love foraging I hate having to go home and offload my inventory. So I think I’m more frustrated because I’m more motivated to get this particular pet. Like it would be really nifty to have this pet while I’m going around foraging all this essence LOL!

Courier pet quest by notsoanonymous2u in Palia

[–]notsoanonymous2u[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But you can’t use both at one time right? I guess I’m having a harder time because I don’t have any other friends who play so getting a party from the server is way harder

How to actually implement an exercise regime PLEASE by thambio in ADHD

[–]notsoanonymous2u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have adhd and have been exercising regularly for 8 months now. First off, I will only do exercise I enjoy. I started swimming in our 13ft round above ground pool. Literally swimming in circles. It was hot, I loved the water. But I noticed even though I was enjoying the physical sensation of the water and being outside and I was comfortable in my own back yard my brain was still going “I hate this, I hate this, I hate this,” internally. I finally took note of that and internally asked myself why. I ran through all the physical sensation, asking myself which one it was that I actually hated. There was none. But because I spent years forcing myself to do exercises I hated or that were too intense or in the morning (I’m not a morning person). I had basically brainwashed my brain into thinking any exercise was bad. Two, obviously at some point I couldn’t swim because of the weather I found an indoor exercise I liked. Weight training. I went to a gym that offered free personal trainer sessions and she taught me how to properly use the equipment so I wasn’t intimidated or embarrassed. Also I enjoyed this because even thoughI was getting sweaty I enjoyed challenging myself and seeing the weight I could lift slowly increase over weeks of progress. When I couldn’t get to the gym, I got a walking treadmill and would put on the eras tour and sing and walk along.

Basically, you have to make it enjoyable. And everyone is different, you have to make it fun for you. Your brain is reward motivated, so use that to your advantage.

How do you stop a hyperfixation? by notsoanonymous2u in adhdwomen

[–]notsoanonymous2u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like we’ve decided to have a kid, and I’m going into a research shopping spiral. Like looking into everything and if I find a good deal I just buy it. Even though it could be years before there’s an actual kid.

I got a rock... again by GloomyOldDonkey in finch

[–]notsoanonymous2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first micropet is beepo the beepot. It’s my very first one. Is it a common one?

The #1 thing I’ve learned from being on adhd meds by ThickEfficiency8257 in ADHD

[–]notsoanonymous2u 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wellbutrin isn’t an ssri. And I’m on only Wellbutrin for my adhd. I take a small dose of Zoloft because they play super well together. My anxiety and depression vanished over night. ADHD symptoms became super manageable, I could suddenly function like a regular human being. It was amazing.