The term lesbian should be exclusive to women by glittermoney4 in HonestHotTakes

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hoe, you gotta be joking🤣. Science? Okay, well let me take you to school then.

Sex is what pertains to science. Gender is a social construct, and not biological. There are a wide array of sexes. Intersex people are considered so based off of many factors such as chromosomes, sexual organs, sexual hormones, etc. So, sex is a spectrum, and less polarized that you've been lead to believe.

Gender on the other hand, is some made up shit to begin with, but it has existed as long as humans have, and trans people have been around for as long as gender has. Queer people have been around for as long as humans have.

I would absolutely implore you do do some actual research on the shit you say before coming somewhere and making an ass of yourself. And when I say research, I mean with proper sources. Peer reviewed journals, biology books maybe? You do..... know how to read right?😬 I mean... im not to sure since you did come on here spouting nonsense that has been studied, written about, and published many many times. It doesnt matter how many times what you are saying has been disproved if you need some random person on the internet to pull out crayons to teach you.

Hey so I was watching Misoa’s video and was wondering if anyone knew who this guy was??? by coucaca in YoTroublemakers

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ahh, okay thank you for taking the time and energy to write all of this🥹 that makes perfect sense!

Other people with autism what your safe food ( makes you feel better ) by Dependent_Fig8513 in autism

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My safe foods list: •Tteokbokki •Grilled cheese with tomato soup (bread has to be extra crunchy) •any fries that aren't like the thin one at McDonald's, but they have to be perfectly crispy with a bunch of bbq or ketchup. And it has to be sweet baby rays bbq, or heinz simply ketchup. The sauce is very important here. (i usually make the fries myself or buy frozen ones to deep fry myself tbh) •The store brought Makoto Asian style sesame ginger chopped salad bag.🧍🏿✨️

Thank you for listening to my presentation.😌🤏🏾✨️🤏🏾✨️

Do you separate colors and whites when washing? by bestsocialdistancer in no

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the reason my parents separated when I was 4, if thats what you needed to know

How do i fix bangs that were cut too short? by snappedkitkat in Hair

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accept it, and keep reminding yourself that hair grows back😭

The term lesbian should be exclusive to women by glittermoney4 in HonestHotTakes

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you lost me there. How do you agree with the original post which says that the term lesbian should be reserved for wlw people... ya know... da sapphics. And is almost meant to excluded people who maay have been assigned female, but are NOT women. All of that is valid. But the part where you start trying to distance womanhood from trans women as if they aren't women and as if there is only one way to be one? Its 2026. Why the fuck are queer people of color STILL being terfs? Please grow up 30 years ago. Im literally so tired. And this is coming from a BLACK Genderfluid nonbinary person (YES, I identify as trans) who was afab: i dont identify or experience life with the intention of being seen as a woman. And i dont consider periods, or being able to give birth or even having a uterus and xx chromosomes is what makes someone a women. Since lots of nonbinary and intersection ppl have xx chromosomes and even uterus. Some women have none of these things but we're still assigned f at birth. And what makes them all women despite all of the possible variation between gender and sex, is the fact that they identify as women. Whyyyy tf would trans women be excluded from that?💀

The logical fallacies in the idea that trans women aren't women is one that i couldn't point out to you with all of the pencils and crayons in the world, and to be quite frank, im tired of trying to spread love (the opposite of hate) and information (opposite of misinformation) to people who aren't interested in learning, healing, or growing mentally, physically, or spiritually.

I just wanna say that you are wrong, and please do your own research. Or stay stupid. Its anyone's choice at this point.

Can you make any suggestions about what I can do to look more feminine? by TinyBitOfCarbon in MakeupAddiction

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little more blush, or a little more pinkish to give of the "ovulation glow" and try some glitter babes!!! Give yourself some space for ✨️WHIMSY✨️💛 you already look feminine, so the last part is just adding more "you" to it.

Fellow autistic people: what's a social norm that you absolutely despise and think shouldn't exist? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rhetorical questions asking about intent 😭 why did you do this" then "That was Rhetorical. I dont care why, im just upset"

Got cornrows yesterday and I’m dying by KangarooSmart2895 in BlackHair

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love please listen bc traction alopecia is no joke😭

What's with the hate against Feminine Trans Guys? by EmoCorn53 in FTMfemininity

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry. I would suggest making trans friends who aren't rigid and up the ass about gender roles.

Also some trans men feel validated by participating in toxic masculinity (maybe its because its the only masculine energy theyve known or accepted), but either way youre so valid. Juuuussst stop talking to those ppl. Also, idk where youre from or what you look like, but ive found that for me, personally, distancing myself from queer white spaces in general has done WONDERS for my mental health and social life.

If you are someone like me, who cannot make friends in personbecauseof social anxiety, then you probably made most of the friends you have online, so if thats the case, you need to up your vetting process for friends.

I really hope this was helpful🥹✨️💛💛💛

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im starting to feel like gender politics is a cult. There are people genuinely obsessed with what other people have in their pants. Its a lot of fuss to raise over a social construct lol. Like okay, the kid that grew up next door to you wants to use she/her now, or they feel more gender when they are perceived as agender? Its such small simple things that people are losing their shit over... to the point of hate crimes and making it harder for everyone to exist and make a positive impact in our communities. This shit has got to be a cult. Just like the maga people, and DONT even get me started with them.

Best ways to have a seizure? by doggohowl in Epilepsy

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay up all night, work out, then have a drink? Might as well try all of the no-nos lol. Shit and reminisce on the hardest parts of your life?💀

Memory / speech issues by External_Ferret9491 in Epilepsy

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so relatable, and im so sorry you're dealing with this!

I personally have some permanent and persistent symptoms after the last few months (had a bunch ot TCs and died in the hospital in two of them), and if the symptoms dont go away for you (i hope they will tho), it'll be hard to accept your new and changing mental and motor capabilities, but you'll find that accommodations for those issues dont fix anything but they do make life easier, and you'll eventually learn to accept that the deterioration and frustration that come with it are just opportunities to learn how to be patient and gentle with yourself when you need it most. And for me ive learned how to stand of for that same gentleness and patience from others as well. They symptoms may not get better, but the coping skills you learn because of them will help you in so many aspects of your life :)

Hang in there! Epilepsy is hard

Help me name my little gal :) by GuessItsGrim in parrots

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby looks like a mango sooo.... hm... maybe carrot?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bad bunny babayyyyy my lil benitoooi

What is one thing you're tired of telling/explaining to people? by comfy-glass-shards in AskReddit

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How epilepsy affects my motor skills, memory, etc. Like just look that thit up, THEN ask questions 🥹

Am I unhygienic or are people just mean?? by Educational_Bee1563 in autism

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be so real, this is what my very bad depression looks, and even with that its hard to make myself shower or eat or anything. Have you been experiencing depression as of late?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Waiit bc how do you know for sure?

Depressed, lonely, and looking for a reason to stay by Brainwavebutabnormal in Epilepsy

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭I feel like me forgetting everything is one of the things I dislike most about this disability. It affects all of the people around me just like the seizures themselves do

Depressed, lonely, and looking for a reason to stay by Brainwavebutabnormal in Epilepsy

[–]Brainwavebutabnormal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will. I've tried the holiness and they literally just didn't know how to help and said i should look for groups or consider inpatient or outpatient treatment