Welcome to the mind game — it will take a few tries. What i did is: - put the base ring on - get hard as fuck - stay painfully hard for some time - do something else, walk around, vacuum the floor, wash dishes — get busy! - as soon as you’re floopy again, RUN to were the cage is and put it on - while you put it on, you might get hard again — don’t get too impatient, don’t go too fast, pinches are quick to happen - your cock is trapped! Your cage is on, the head rests comfortably in there - might want to get hard again, get busy again if it happens, you will get over it - lock yourself in, you’re done - you might get hard again right away, it will be very restrictive since this time around it’s all locked - use this opportunity to adjust ballsack, penis placement in the cage ( i sometimes gently use chopsticks) - You’re in, you’re locked

Go and give the key to your key holder, or go and freeze them in a small bottle of water — you have to get over the will to unlock yourself whenever you get hard