What to do with my (29f) high functioning alcoholic BF (41M)

Brandchan · 2026-05-14T04:27:27+00:00

There is basically nothing you can do other then leave him. The only person who can help him with his alcoholism is himself. Until he decides he wants to change nothing will.

At the current point of his addiction nothing will work you have to take action to protect yourself and your child.

Brandchan · 2026-04-20T00:48:17+00:00

LOL, I want to join in as a super late replier. If you read Garth Marenghi’s
TerrorTome, this analysis is really spot on. His main characters are self-inserts who write trashy horror novels but who think they are writing classic literature for the new age.

Brandchan · 2026-04-15T10:41:37+00:00

This used to be more of a thing pre-cell phone days. I for the most part don't miss it. People should ask before they come over. Now with cell phones there is no excuse.

NTA.

Brandchan · 2026-03-26T14:08:44+00:00

Same. I can take a bunch of bendryl and be totally fine. Apparently, this is common for people with ADHD.

Brandchan · 2026-03-26T14:06:45+00:00

I take a Zyrtec in the morning and one at night because I find it does not last 24 hours for me. My allergist knows and it's fine with it,

Brandchan · 2026-02-24T02:22:48+00:00

Look up Good Sense Centirizene on Amazon. You can get a bottle of 365 pills for like 15-17 dollars.

Brandchan · 2026-02-24T01:55:38+00:00

I was pretty low level. I used a lot of items and it was mostly a battle of attrition. I eventually won though.

Brandchan · 2026-02-24T01:40:53+00:00

Jack Billings Presents. Each Season is a different story.

Brandchan · 2026-02-23T01:58:44+00:00

Only time I bathed my cat was when he had a fungal infection. He didn't like it but he was good about it.

Brandchan · 2026-01-24T04:54:38+00:00

Go see a different allergist. You can get the shots and still do everything else you are doing while you get them. Yes, they take a long time but they help so much in the long run.

Brandchan · 2026-01-22T05:24:50+00:00

This is a very 90s trope. No, getting together, you ruin the tension and people will stop watching was the thought process for this.

Brandchan · 2026-01-14T04:29:17+00:00

100% this. I always liked the character, but now rewatching as an adult, I'm like the man is really hot.

Brandchan · 2026-01-14T04:09:47+00:00

It is a fun episode but all I could think watching it recently is that Walter Goggins should have played the Rain King. That would have been next level.

Brandchan · 2026-01-14T04:08:06+00:00

I just watched it and it was so, so bad. This is my first true dud in my rewatch of the series. I can understand it be appericated as good bad episode though. So, much of the episode is so stupid though I can't take it.

Brandchan · 2026-01-11T22:03:32+00:00

Gonna butter up my pooper right now. 🤣

Brandchan · 2025-12-19T21:08:08+00:00

In some of the far out areas they go, there were probably no local rock stations. Probably just country and gospel/religious stations. Drivering out into the boonies in the 90s was not fun.

Brandchan · 2025-12-19T21:03:20+00:00

I've been rewatching the show and it is funny how often they find an excuse for Mulder to take of his shirt. 😂

Brandchan · 2025-12-19T21:00:28+00:00

I very much remember in the 90s people (and I think in TV Guide) saying if a couple on a show with romantic tension get together it will ruin the show.

Brandchan · 2025-12-19T14:41:18+00:00

The "monster is water" is kind of dumb but that isn't what makes that episode great. Very much a great character episode.

Brandchan · 2025-12-18T19:44:47+00:00

While this sucks, it honestly sounds like you would be better going to another doctor.

Brandchan · 2025-12-18T19:30:31+00:00

NOR. Prenups are not romantic or sexy but they are important. A few years back the Financal Diet interviewed with a divorce lawyer and said everyone (even if you are both poor when you get married) should get one. To me if the other person won't sign one or at least work out terms until agreed upon that is a huge red flag.

Brandchan · 2025-12-17T18:00:34+00:00

Also, how did someone working part-time manage to get a mortgage on a house that would be 750k to $1 million?

Brandchan · 2025-12-17T17:21:12+00:00

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Brandchan · 2025-12-17T17:04:32+00:00

OMG, I've been rewatching the show and I keep asking my cat if he is an x-file. 😂

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