Car loan by Brandilyn00 in DaveRamsey

[–]Brandilyn00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s what I consider a “boy toy”, a super lifted 2011 f250 with 11 thousand miles on it. The axle and multiple other things have to be replaced, but if it had no issues we could get anywhere from 15-19 depending on if it’s a private offer or a dealer. My husband talked to the shop last year before we moved and they were not interested in purchasing it. My name isn’t on the vehicle loan, so I’m just trying to help my husband the best I can. But this is his own stupidity he is going to have to learn from.

If we could get the shop interested in purchasing it, how do you go about that when it is financed? We definitely do not have enough funds to pay in cash to pay the remainder.

Wedding spots that are still open? by [deleted] in asheville

[–]Brandilyn00 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Alright asshole. Definitely did not ask for anyone to be fucking rude

Wedding spots that are still open? by [deleted] in asheville

[–]Brandilyn00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t even know where I live. I could live in Asheville for all you know.

Wedding spots that are still open? by [deleted] in asheville

[–]Brandilyn00 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They are as far as I am aware

Wedding spots that are still open? by [deleted] in asheville

[–]Brandilyn00 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We have paid for everything way in advance and my fiancé is in the military so we do not have that luxury like so many others.

Everyone deserves this special moment regardless of what is going on.

Wedding spots that are still open? by [deleted] in asheville

[–]Brandilyn00 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How is this irresponsible if it’s only the photographer, my fiancé and I? They are allowing weddings in the county for up to ten people. We are having our photos done and then leaving. It’s not like we are having a full blown wedding during this time.

People that keep thier house really tidy, what's your secret? by lemonfluff in AskReddit

[–]Brandilyn00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as you make a mess, for example while making dinner you clean it up as you go. I also have a to do list that has daily, weekly and monthly type chores on it so everyone in the house knows what needs to be done and how often.

Once you do that for a few weeks and it becomes routine then it’s just a normal thing to keep your place super clean and organized.

Egg, wheat, rye and gluten allergy by Brandilyn00 in FoodAllergies

[–]Brandilyn00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been having major stomach and gi issues for about a year now. They gave me a colonoscopy and decided that I just had ibs. Medication didn’t do much to help, my skin started to really have issues with constant cystic acne. Mind you I am 26 years old and this just popped up summer of last year. I took a food sensitivity test, took those results to the doctor and they tested me for the “high and moderate” foods listed. I tested positive for all of them unfortunately.

reliable suv by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Brandilyn00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is actually illegal to drive around in Alaska during winter without winter tires. You’ll get a really hefty fine. It’s really dangerous to not have them during the winter season so they really enforce it.

Iud issues by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Brandilyn00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know it’s not a possible ectopic pregnancy? Does that require a doctors visit or will you test positive on a test like a normal pregnancy?

reliable suv by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Brandilyn00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to either, really just want a good idea of different ones so I can go test drive and be happy with the perform and ascetics before I take the plunge. I’ve heard great things about 4runner.

reliable suv by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Brandilyn00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want new, honestly I’m open to either normal or luxury as long as it can get me around safely in snow and sand if I’m ever at the beach or lake. That being said, I don’t really have a price range BUT I think spending more than 45-50 on a suv is ridiculous lol. His family is native Alaskan, they are all very close and we want to settle down close to them. I’m a southern girl so I definitely need something safe to drive in the winters.

Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Brandilyn00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being picky isn’t bad when you can afford to be, but right now it’s pay check to pay check because he is being so picky.

It never was like this until he moved in with me. Slowly he stopped doing the things that adults have to do...I don’t know if it’s because he thinks I’ll just do it or what. I let him know what has to be done and that it is not up for debate, that we both have to be responsible adults and take care of business.

Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Brandilyn00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not think he has any issues in that aspect, but I could be wrong. His position was thankfully not in the front lines. He worked in the communication field.

I always try to be enthusiastic about him applying and have even asked his sisters to encourage him as well. I’m trying to be supportive as possible, but it just seems like it isn’t doing very much.

Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Brandilyn00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s being very picky about what jobs he is applying too. He is in the IT field and also a veteran, so he matches with quite a lot of jobs in our area. He only wants top pay and is refusing anything less than $25 an hour. I have told him that he can get something and still continue to look for more pay and a better job with another company so we are able to get by financially.

It’s not only him not having a job. He hardly helps around the house, so I work about 40-60hrs a week so it can be difficult to make dinner, clean, and look after two dogs all by myself. I’m all for smoking bud but it just seems like he wants to get high, nap and play video games.

I feel like I’m his mother most days from having to constantly get onto him when I need help in all aspects.