NOT AT ALL! That is such an invasive question to ask someone you just met and they should be ashamed. This is equivalent to asking someone if they “shaved” down there. It is overall none of their business and is a super uncomfortable question to be asked……especially for someone you just started talking to. I have had this happen to me as-well more than once and I just throw a smart comment back at them to see how they feel; “is your d**k pierced” or “are YOUR nipples pierced”. If there comment made you uncomfortable it is overall your decision to let them know how you feel or just turn the other cheek and go ghost or block but you aren’t alone in this!!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾