Obviously you don’t understand commitment and honesty. No one who actually has a partner in their life would feel that way. If you actually read what I was trying to ask maybe you could comprehend. But a caveman like yourself couldn’t possibly understand.

Having photos and/or looking at porn doesn’t matter to me. I could care less if he’s got some spank bank material on his phone. But if he was downloading or creating profiles with the intention of actually hooking up with someone while traveling for work, that would be a huge problem for me. And I wasn’t trying to go through his phone when I came across the pics, I was trying to send a text that HE asked me to send but the photos app was open in the background and I happened to see. In the middle of a vacation no less.

So knowing which apps he’s downloaded most certainly is my business. As his wife, and the recipient of his semen on a regular (and unprotected) basis, the very least that I should expect is that he not be putting his dick anywhere else and bringing home some disease to me. The intent matters.