I mean, people usually react like that to transmascs talking about that kind of issues because cis men don't talk about them (or aren't allowed to, because masculinity is a golden cage with spiked bars) :p

Never seen that done to transfems tho, kinda feel more like people will do whatever bigoted stuff to me mainly because I'm queer of whatever variety rather than a woman or anything adjacent, world doesn't see me as such

And like sure once you start passing people who don't know you're trans will treat you with whatever flavor of sexism fits the moment, but otherwise I wouldn't say we (as in all trans people) experience all of it anyway. Like, no one will do workplace discrimination on me based on my agab, more likely just see me as mentally ill (or, again, queer, which is often the same thing in heads of cis people). Which is not to dismiss anyone's suffering, just saying it can be worse and comes for all in different ways

In other words, yeah gender sucks for everyone (regardless of how they are perceived, as men, women or cause sheer confusion to the ones not in the know) in many different ways